@jcervantes22: Men who were abandoned when they needed love the most.. how did you heal? #healing #datingadvice #alone #notlove

NOIDK :

You don’t, you just move on

fractured_horizon :

I drowned myself in my work. I later realized after I got better that you never really heal from it. You just learn to live with it. It's like a cut that healed and left a scar.

toushin02 :

a lot of time, its been 9 months, and thinking ab it still hurts.

Thomas :

heal isn't the word id choose.

Christian :

You Just Move On. You Become Cold and Numb, And Suddenly Everyone Cares Because They See You Are No Longer The Same Person You Used To Be. Honestly I Find Being Alone Is My Peace Now.

No Russian :

Music or just deal with it there isn’t a way to heal only you can know how to deal with it

film fan993 :

you find your true self. That lover boy who got himself hurt isn't around any more. Get up and go

Sinister. :

you can let go but you never forget snd that causes mental fractures or for me it did ive got abandonment issues from my mother and severe ptsd from my ex wife you can heal but not in the way you think you develop the mentality of what ever happens happens everything is out of my control and when you think like that there is little joy in things that should make you happy if that makes sense

kadingle :

By staying on my own working on not relying on people and making a plan for what I’m going to do for my life 👍

sugardaddy56 :

very slowly and still healing

Arturion :

You don’t, you just keep it to yourself and pretend like everything is normal

lion boy :

by coming to terms with it and trying to live peacefully and kind love will come for you but you need to wait for it to be ready for you and you should be willing to accept it but don't seek it out or you might scare it away

DEATHKING :

I didn’t

Spudzmackenzie32 :

who said I healed?...

NikTherosen :

Gym, best place to vent negative emotions

Reyes :

By the best way, the Lord

🇧🇧VENØM🇧🇧 :

Josh :

I never have

Brandon :

I still havent

Cori :

You don’t

Birb_man :

It takes too much energy to hate, eventually you just let go because you end wondering. What was even the point in the first place.

lonewolf empath :

some never did

Robert Garretson :

buried it , gain more then buried that , and when we snap we the monster

Deathknight_Void :

you need to keep moving forward. even if it's painful, not because it's easy, because you need to survive. the healing is done over time, with friends, community, maybe even new love found. but you mist move, lest you say damned in torment

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