natalie louise
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It’s too much ✨ :
The avoidant behaviour causes the anxious in the first place
2026-11-05 18:03:04
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CyberNaught5 :
But why do they love bomb and want to get so close so fast in the beginning 😩
2026-11-05 21:31:04
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Luczyyx :
I dont think u have yo be anxiously attached to wanna talk to ur partner 😭
2026-11-06 06:45:58
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bianca :
are we maybe confusing someone genuinely not being interested with an attachment type here
2026-11-06 12:14:24
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Ana :
I don’t understand what’s the point of being in a relationship if you don’t want to do relationship things. You can do what you wanna do when you wanna do it on your own schedule when you’re single and don’t have to include anyone. If that’s what feels good there’s nothing wrong in choosing yourself and being single. Partnership is way too centered in our society when most of the things you want you can do with friends with no commitment
2026-11-06 09:59:42
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CloudyMentos :
It’s literally normal talking lol
2026-11-06 08:28:31
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yeetwheat247 :
Don’t talk to them
2026-11-05 20:30:23
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nelli_sky :
Ok… very subtle 🚩is when you notice that whole life is going on their schedule: you wait for them and always adjust or you do it alone because they won’t adjust
2026-11-06 01:29:48
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User :
Attachment style is not an excuse for neglect. As an avoidant this j pissed me off. Avoidants fear vulnerability, dependence, and emotional threats. They run in order to hurt u first. Someone getting mad bc u wanna tell them abt ur day just doesn’t gaf abt u. I’m sorry.
2026-11-06 01:10:40
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👑🦁Nathan :
Heres the best tip u can have with an avoidant, avoid them. Hope this helps ✨
2026-11-06 00:11:05
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Tbyrd1114 :
Is this DA or FA? I feel like my FA does like to communicate a lot but it depends on topics too.
2026-11-05 19:19:59
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stone gate :
For me everyone I’ve surrounded myself with and felt drawn too platonically can talk. We talk about everything and anything. Developing feelings for an avoidant was absolute hell because an inability to talk to me means we can’t develop any connection
2026-11-05 20:54:13
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Alexander :
Therefore, keep it at a surface level with the avoidant. Meanwhile, the anxious attachment seeks conversations with others.
2026-11-05 23:21:36
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Portia's Cosplay Account :
I'm mostly healed from avoidance but its still kicking so--a good compromise I've noticed. if the recap is negative (ie u arent just sharing funny tales or wins), but if it's negative, either warn them in advance youre having A Day (part of my healing journey is learning to prepare for painful things) or ask if they have a second to hear a vent rn or if a later time is better. this helped with a lot of trauma triggers that contributed to my avoidance. post-therapy, I'm sincerely able to know & say "hey now I'm overwhelmed and/or busy, lets do latwr". if they trust you (&u urself are healed), you can both trust it
2026-11-06 01:15:07
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Kaders :
Avoidants are the absolute worst people to be around.
2026-11-06 01:00:02
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Blak Howard :
But I gotta listen to everything she went through at work smh f it
2026-11-05 19:30:08
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Nurse_rayy :
This is miserable way to live
2026-11-06 01:13:41
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alissa layne :
Or they could grow up
2026-11-06 00:39:03
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Juddog :
I finally told her today that I don’t want to be part of this dynamic anymore. After breaking up and getting back with me 3 times, it’s been 4 months since we were physical with each other, she sent me a message about she’s with the new boyfriend of the week and how we can’t flirt anymore, and how I could hang out with her and her new boyfriend. A big middle finger 🖕 to her at this point, I replied that the entire relationship has been emotionally corrosive to me and that I’m done with even being her friend.
2026-11-05 21:09:15
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