Are there any guys without red flags? I mean it, I’ve dated SO MANY men. Have high standards. I’m 38. I honestly don’t think any of the men my age who are single are healthy. 😢 Would love to be wrong about this.
2026-11-05 20:44:03
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Catia :
What are the red flags?
2026-11-05 21:15:25
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abbylee_xox3 :
I was talking to an avoidant, and most likely narcissistic, man and left him at 4 months in. I’m so proud because the man before him got 4 YEARS out of me and it was horrible… this time it was like my nervous system was like “no we are absolutely not going down this path again”
2026-11-05 21:28:10
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Apples :
Have you seen the avoidance abuse chart?
2026-11-05 19:46:21
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jazmin :
So. True. Talking to a man for 5 months left his ass. He had a lot of red flags.
2026-11-05 21:12:51
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Sarah :
I was married to one for 20 years and just replayed an avoidant dating cycle recently. Can you say what the red flags are to me they pop up after three to six months not immediately. It’s when you need them to be emotionally available it comes out.
2026-11-05 18:42:16
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LadySongBird :
Same girl, same!
2026-11-05 21:16:08
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user3049394316581 :
I wonder if you can speak more about your body’s physical reaction. I spoke with a person for a couple of days and out of nowhere he switched up on me and I caught it immediately. I began to lose my peace and had extreme bubble gut. I don’t understand how we stay after that. It’s so uncomfortable. It’s like your body warning you.
2026-11-05 20:46:36
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Naomi A. Barnett 🤎🍁☕️👜 :
This!!
2026-11-05 19:46:11
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Tia :
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2026-11-05 18:21:24
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