Don't change a thing!!! Unmatching = saving you're mental space
2026-11-05 18:45:51
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I 💗 ALEX G :
Sprry ily but I just can’t help but feels so weird about the “as a man part” because why cant we as women take the first step and ask to meet up? I get it, if you prefer to be the one who gets asked out. But I think it’s harmful to say that “you as a man should ask” because it paints a picture where it seems that you feel as if we should follow traditional gender roles. I feel like it would be bad if someone where to flip it around and say “you as women should” yk? Sorry English isn’t my first language
2026-11-05 18:45:30
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Kaela Amanda Tyler :
I think because dating can become expensive for men if they’re actively dating, they prefer to get to know a woman and see if there’s some connection before investing time/money.
2026-11-05 20:59:28
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Kittyyy :
Aren’t u tired, girl?😭😭
2026-11-05 18:46:14
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lol.kendrasucks :
did you ever have a stage in ur life when you had a completely different aesthetic than u do now?
2026-11-06 02:09:23
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Blocked*on*TINDER :
If you say a week & stick around for weeks to chat..they know it’s not a deal breaker....take it out of the bio or stand on it..IMO🙏 respectfully
2026-11-05 19:11:18
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🧃 :
would u ever go on love is blind if they reached out
2026-11-05 18:54:13
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LaLa 💖💖💖 :
No pen pals ever! They’re married or keeping you on the back burner.
2026-11-05 18:44:49
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Tasha Nicole :
Swear they just a pen pal
2026-11-06 01:56:05
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J.barrr :
Me when a man just wants to text and I wanna meet.
2026-11-05 18:45:08
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Taylor 🫧 :
I know people hate a pen pal and that's sooooo so so valid! But I will see, once I was talking to a guy off a dating app who lived an hour away from me, for THREE months before we went on a date. Conversations were amazing, and we had a lot of fun texting and sending voice memos, so it just went by fast. Then we finally went on a date, and it was amazing, and he was amazing! So I will say, sometimes a pen pal can lead to a really really good experience. BUT, I so get why people aren't interested in waiting that long, that was just an experience I had 🫶🏼 Good luck divas, it's tough out here!!!
2026-11-06 01:46:02
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🤘🏻📚FELICIA🔥😊 :
I’ve been wondering if I unmatch too quick too. If I don’t get a reply for 3–5 days I unmatch. I don’t need daily or constant contact, I just like to think if someone’s enjoying the convo, keen to get to know you or meet, then they wouldn’t let momentum slip for more than 24–48hrs or they’d communicate if they’re going away, busy, etc
2026-11-06 01:47:33
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Nic :
I think if they don’t initiate a plan they’re like seeing someone already
2026-11-05 19:52:07
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Christy Nicole :
To be fair…. I “chatted” with my man via IG for 3 months before I let him take me out 😂 I liked getting to really know him and now we’re getting married !!
2026-11-05 20:58:15
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🥸 :
Im a firm believer of if he wanted to he would
2026-11-06 01:35:10
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Kenz :
Perhaps you could try removing it from your bio and incorporating it into your early conversations
2026-11-05 20:05:49
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Quendeya Lyons :
Mama if he ain't asked after a week, or your time line end it
2026-11-05 20:06:59
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Ilse :
Idk but I don’t wanna hang out with someone I don’t know or only messages me once a day. I hate men but some of them are humans too and don’t want to waste their time taking out someone they don’t know or even worse don’t like either. I know I certainly feel that way lol no super strangers here
2026-11-05 20:22:23
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smokesletsgo13 :
How you even match with this many people is insane on its own. How are you finding enough good looking interesting profile having men to even unmatch them? I had 7k likes this time last year on chispa. I kept 100 (maybe) to take a second look at. I only matched work MAYBE 30-40
2026-11-05 21:57:02
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Dela :
He's not single
2026-11-05 18:53:36
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jjwehope :
omg im first for the first time ever im nervous ñ
2026-11-05 18:42:45
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lvt :
Keep your standards. Hold out for what you want. Future you will thank you!
2026-11-05 23:52:55
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ttlm 🇨🇦 :
I really think men simply want to be virtually entertained. So texting is enough.
2026-11-05 23:35:19
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🧁 :
the video is glitching for me
2026-11-05 20:21:44
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KellyMarie🇮🇹 :
Where is your jacket from?
2026-11-05 21:03:43
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