Take fucking space, but space without the communication of how long/ending date until reunion, the real reasons, and the actual try for repair afterwards. Without that, “space” is just a word for you emotionally withholding from your partner which is ABUSIVE.
2026-11-07 06:53:28
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𝓛. 🍂 :
A lot of them don't even announce needing space in the first place... It hurts cause why do they make us fall in love with a version of them they cannot maintain.
2026-11-06 18:06:59
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joshuastarks :
its not space its withholding, its control
2026-11-06 02:34:15
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Austin🦔 :
the way we are the first to toss out when they get stressed by work, family, friends. its so unfair.
2026-11-07 03:31:09
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stacecase_x3 :
If someone needs days away from me then they aren’t for me.
2026-11-07 16:29:19
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Mountain Herbs Herbal Blends :
please give them that space & move on with your life
2026-11-06 21:32:30
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L 🙂↔️ :
My avoidant told me they need space and I gave them space and then I was told they didn’t think I missed them bc I didn’t check in enough. Help!
2026-11-06 16:38:26
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Sophina 💛✨🇭🇹 :
This it’s the uncertainty and the spending time with everyone else
2026-11-07 13:44:59
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Emily 🧡 :
I just wanted to be sure of where I stood with him.
2026-11-06 03:48:07
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Caleb :
“I’m not feeling social.” Proceeds to literally hop from social media platform to social media platform to dating app….
2026-11-07 11:33:39
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mammamu98 :
Avoidant here lol, I can only speak for myself but I get so fucking overwhelmed I literally panic and honestly I feel like it’s irresponsible to date as I feel this way or if I date it has to be done with an extreme level of communication but idk it’s taken years of therapy to understand that it’s the closeness that creates the panic
2026-11-06 01:38:36
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Nathan :
the way he asked for space and “just needed time to be alone” just to find out he was hanging out with friends and being social with others. it really hurts tbh.
2026-11-07 02:23:36
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professionalragebaiterr :
They more I gave him space to more I felt like he took me for granted.
2026-11-06 11:40:49
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sj :
Thank you 👏👏 they don’t understand the damage you will start becoming cold yourself because you can’t rely on your other half you start both doing life without them 🫂💐 ITS OVER MAN
2026-11-07 07:55:36
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ഉണ്ണികൃഷ്ണൻ. ആർ :
I used to think I needed everyone to approve of my choices. AnwenReid anxiety quiz got me reflecting on that habit, and building trust in myself has become a really empowering goal.
2026-11-07 04:48:35
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DatBloombergBs 🇭🇹🇨🇺 🗽 :
Spoke my truth for real.. I’ve been gone 2 months now after 7 years… miss her but is it even worth going back..
2026-11-07 07:47:36
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Angela :
I am very lucky that I have a secure attachment style. I actually prefer to date introverted men. Avoidants don't need space they need to be in control!! They need to sneak around and keep secrets!
2026-11-06 18:45:06
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milarep :
They need so much space we will need space forever , done , it will be done one day
2026-11-05 21:46:16
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chillgrandma0 :
Men say I'm avoidant and idk if that's true, it happens with my friends, I notice a pattern over months then I slowly lose respect for the person, I don't bring it up first cuz I don't wanna judge the person over an incident or two. Then as time goes I grow more and more disgusted of them, I try to have a conversation about it and they get defensive then realize the only way to keep me is to admit it and apologize (feels like manipulation to me) so I just grow completely cold. Ask for space and try to forgive them but I can't bring myself to do so so I cut them off.
2026-11-06 08:46:34
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natka౨ৎ :
my avoidant hasn’t talked to me in over a month i don’t know what to do anymore
2026-11-06 18:40:44
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Lady T 💕 :
Then they will tell you they are absolutely happy, want you and only you, but be secretly holding things over your head for years and secretly don’t like you anymore but they will stay until they find their exit
2026-11-06 21:13:23
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🩵Suki🏳️⚧️ :
its selfish toxic behavior can't change my mind, they only think about themselves
2026-11-06 21:54:38
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lauren leigh🐆 :
every time i give him the space he wants so bad he gets mad at me for not reaching out ? what am i meant to do 😭
2026-11-06 17:09:01
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Kayla 📚📖 :
And then they always start sprinkling in the truth
2026-11-06 22:30:11
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