@teyemch: Another hard truth video as I come out of the “catching my husband cheating” fog. Therapy is a wonderful thing and is helping me realize that all these times that I’ve quit on myself in an effort to not upset my husband have been eating away at my self-esteem for years. Putting my passions on the back burner to save myself the snide remarks, the change in tone, the eye rolls, the insulting comments followed by “you know I’m just kidding”. He was never just kidding. He thought my pageant titles were pointless, my coffee business was a waste of time, my job isn’t *that* demanding. Every dismissive, seemingly innocent comment has still rang in my head for years. And I chose to bury it for the sake of ✨marriage✨ and not starting an argument… I know I’m not alone in that. We just don’t recognize it until much later. 💔 If you listened, thank you. I know this was a long one. #divorce #separation #cheatinghusband #lifeafterdivorce #griefjourney

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kimfine02
JBQ 👑🥓💅🏼 :
I’m sorry why didn’t he ever just make his own dinner????
2026-11-06 00:17:04
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constant.reverie
🫧🌙✨️ :
I really hate him.
2026-11-06 00:01:58
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lollygoggins
Lolly Goggins :
That mattress is your life raft. You escaped a sinking ship.
2026-11-06 01:52:57
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ssuruasaram
ssuruasaram :
if he were supportive he would have had dinner waiting for you every night when you got home
2026-11-06 02:26:30
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janetmcdonald7
Janet McDonald :
Well now I’m mad again
2026-11-06 01:17:07
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mimi100014
Mimi :
Really hope karma will eventually catch up that man
2026-11-06 13:49:06
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kristenlynn312
Kristen :
He is such a selfish, self-centered man. You seem so kind.
2026-11-06 00:05:41
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veromapache
Vero :
Absolutely not. Why wasn’t he making his own dinner if he had enough time to wait around annoyed?
2026-11-05 23:34:21
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rebeccaritzel
rebeccaritzel :
This is the hard part. This too shall pass and you will come out even better than before him. More wise and more self assured. Believe me, I know. ❤️‍🩹 You are wonderful and absolutely enough!!
2026-11-10 12:50:53
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remembering_pastelclouds
Remembering_Pastel_Clouds :
Has it hit you yet that you weren’t in love with a real person but a persona, a mask, a lie? When that realization hits you, your heart will heal. You’re mourning someone who doesn’t exist. But more realistically you’re mourning the death of the dream of what could have been.
2026-11-08 02:32:37
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phillip.mccloskey4
Phillip Mccloskey :
Get back into the gym, do it for you. Make yourself feel good.
2026-11-05 23:57:40
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showingupformee
showingupformee :
You might be there on a mattress on the floor but you are FREE. This time of your life doesn't define you. . it's just a stepping stone toward your beautiful and peaceful, successful future!!!! 💖💖💖
2026-11-05 23:49:26
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nblom
coley :
He’s evil omg
2026-11-05 23:47:32
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am.vaaaa
A🌸 :
He was so jealous of you! That you had things going on for your self
2026-11-06 01:13:10
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vanessaoa88
vanessaoa :
I had my daughter research the Betty Broderick story in preparation fpr her future relationships 🤷🏾‍♀️
2026-11-09 20:48:58
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usertac65
Terri Abril :
Isn’t it funny how back then the writing was on the wall and we overlook it?
2026-11-10 00:06:58
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fujiandmax
Fujiandmax :
Ugh,. He should be sleeping in an empty condo on an air mattress by himself 😒😒😒 You’re so much better off now
2026-11-10 00:30:46
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lkohlcam11
Lindsay :
He’s a narcissist
2026-11-06 23:14:45
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penneylane
Penney Lane :
If I’m not home, my husband does this crazy thing where he makes his own damn dinner
2026-11-06 11:20:27
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amuletoffire
amuletoffire :
I’m so glad you’re getting rid of him.
2026-11-06 00:16:47
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angellove_920
Angela :
Two things 1. This is the type of controlling behavior that gets so missed because it’s not like he said “no you can’t compete you have to be at home to make my dinner!” he said he supported you signing up. He said he supported your meal plan. He said he supported your gym time until it came time to actually support it’s the little comments and arguments that trap people in controlling relationships without us ever realizing and Two. Get back in that fucking gym girl. You deserve it. Get in there for fun or to compete but just get in there ❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-11-05 23:44:15
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queeniej82
Julie 💙 :
He coulda made his own meals…
2026-11-06 18:43:03
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dan.iela
Daniela Ramirez :
Loveeee please post videos of your training
2026-11-06 00:59:40
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crankyyankee315
CrankyYankee :
Every time you gave in he respected you less. The more you stop being You to be more like Them the more they don’t like you bc they actually don’t like themselves.
2026-11-06 03:54:01
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rachel.rae24
Rachel Rae :
He sounds awful. I’m so glad you’re out!
2026-11-06 05:02:18
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