“They don’t have to defend themselves anymore, you do it for them” damn. you seriously spark awakening in my life. Thank you.
2026-11-06 01:30:37
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Matthew Swanson :
CALLED MY ASS OUT
2026-11-05 23:39:05
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Nefertiti :
Sir I love your videos, keep it coming
2026-11-05 23:27:39
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gus :
It’s so frustrating
2026-11-06 01:53:05
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Terry6_4ish :
Hmmm he spitting some knowledge
2026-11-06 00:39:19
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20disgruntled dad77 :
everytime i bring up my issues to my roommates its always "we are all struggling" but they want me to sit there and listen to their shit. im tired of it.
2026-11-06 04:30:49
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Jazzi dream :
Speaking to what I'm growing out of now
2026-11-06 00:15:32
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Amanda :
this is wildly specific for me today. tiktok watching me 😭
2026-11-06 04:53:06
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Amf :
This was me and I had to let go
2026-11-06 03:57:59
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malaware :
early for today’s gospel
2026-11-05 23:33:38
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ajaactually :
As soon as you find yourself trying to manage the conversation proactively then it’s time for a hard conversation or leave. This just leads to self abandonment and you are holding the emotional load while they get to avoid holding their part.
2026-11-06 00:27:42
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genetic blueprint ౨ৎ :
took me now to 24 to feel comfortable saying no and actually saying it & i never been more happier ❤️🩹
2026-11-05 23:33:46
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Blaque J :
Preach
2026-11-06 04:17:32
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🫧🪩rOgUe_MuSe🪩🫧📚🪬 :
Once the deflection takes the place of accountability and creation of safety for each other, it is time to go. Learn to give yourself all of that love first. To trust yourself so much that trusting another becomes a benefit, not a need you have. It can be hard to let go, yet even harder to find your dignity once you compromise your needs to appease another.
2026-11-06 00:34:08
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Desiderium Arts :
We cant stop this at relationships, though family can be encircled in relationships. This is something I have to anticipate, prevent, and avoid any time I try to talk to my Mother
2026-11-05 23:32:35
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SaRkAzZ :
exhausting
2026-11-06 02:31:48
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Jasmine :
Mannnnn, call me! Lmfaoo but nah, seriously.. story of my life. Ima cut that man off soon…😭 I’m almost there
2026-11-06 00:47:01
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Martín López :
I miss when you spoke in 2x
2026-11-06 01:51:04
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bella1devine :
I don’t need to imagine it. I lived it
2026-11-06 02:14:49
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@sifi_m :
I'd leave...my nervous system is much more important than ANY human being...😏
2026-11-06 00:50:24
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Jaszi :
My sisters did this to me.
2026-11-06 01:37:13
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Doopie :
YES THANK YOU I FEEL SO CRAZY SOMETIMES
2026-11-06 01:16:07
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19 :
Performative softness is so real. Whole time I’ve been tryna figure out how to confront without provoking defensiveness in the next person.
2026-11-06 01:01:41
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AutoZel910 :
story of my life 😳
2026-11-06 01:21:17
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