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𑣲𝒜𝓁𝑒𝓍𝒾𝒶ᢉ𐭩 :
valid unless the person gets hurt over literally anything and you have to walk on eggshells
2026-11-06 20:51:28
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CameronSsss :
We as humans also need to understand certain things should not hurt us and we need to work on that
2026-11-06 18:46:41
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acrch4 :
the people who say this rarely acknowledge the hurt they do to others
2026-11-07 10:39:00
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user6060265805292 :
This made me smile
2026-11-08 18:45:24
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⋆｡°✩ 𝓐𝓿𝓪 ✩°｡⋆ :
yh, but it gets so annoying when they have a double standard and expects me to be like that(which is fine) however they won't accept it themselves when they've hurt me or something like its so annoying
2026-11-06 23:48:44
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user3740269731824 :
Love this
2026-11-08 19:37:46
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samuelwood971 :
What if it were the truth that offended them? One day you will realize, how you feel only matters to you and those who love you.
2026-11-06 19:11:49
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rat :
wish more parents would understand this lol
2026-11-06 12:21:47
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🌀 :
My gf when i told her not texting for 5 days is not okay for me and that i was feeling bad because i thought she didnt love me anymore. She send me a very long and sweet text after that and now we’re okay and she trying to be better on this for me. So if something hurt you, talk, I promise that if the other person is mature enough they would understand that it hurts and try to be better if this person really love you.
2026-11-05 23:56:50
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valley girl :
but at the same time, just because things we say or do hurts someone doesn’t automatically mean they shouldn’t be said or done. a person can be hurt and we can also be justified in what occurred. they are not mutually exclusive
2026-11-06 21:40:18
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lesverites2 :
The best way to heal for both is to admit and forgive.
2026-11-08 04:12:55
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081057cappy :
Wow. That is so profound and so true!
2026-11-05 23:34:54
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country boy .David Acker :
it's so easy to speak or do something that leaves a scar for ever .
2026-11-06 01:16:57
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☀️kailyn☀️ :
I did and I apologized but continued to bring me down and kept telling me I was in the wrong over and over again
2026-11-06 22:00:02
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🎀🩶 Maya 🩶🎀 :
My problem with this quote is ppl think this applies to ppl that cry abt EVERY LITTLE THING YOU DO and esp ppl that only say you hurt them when you’re setting firm boundaries like why should I change my boundaries to please you?
2026-11-07 00:24:21
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NewEireMan :
I agree. and I am thankful to of learned this. over and over again
2026-11-08 13:31:56
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Gold hunter :
This is a humbling truth. Taking responsibility is crucial for healing and showing true empathy in our relationships.
2026-11-06 20:28:29
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🪼 :
not first but just know i was here
2026-11-05 23:26:42
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izabelle :
talk about timing. i’m trying to convince her that she can’t tell me my feelings aren’t valid and i shouldn’t feel how i feel but at the end of the day she annoyed me and i told her so it doesn’t happen again and so no arguments are caused. but cause what happened. we’re on day 4 of arguing.
2026-11-05 23:28:23
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Larry the Lion 🦁 :
I never cause harm to anyone ❤️❤️
2026-11-06 04:57:38
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11:11 :
Either way I’ll still always be the one apologizing because I’m afraid I’ll lose everyone if I don’t
2026-11-07 11:29:43
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Raisah_Afifi :
Even if I haven’t I know it I always just apologise and ask how I can fix it because what’s it going to cost me to make them feel better?
2026-11-07 22:55:02
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lynneeewilson :
Very true... We all have different levels of feelings too... What hurts you may seem like nothing to someone else x
2026-11-08 13:34:51
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Cassidy❤️ :
Noooo I just don’t gaf… cause apparently it’s only a problem when I do it
2026-11-08 05:15:43
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Le Quette 🦊 :
Except if its coming from a manipulative narcissist, who twist reality, to make it look like they are the ones who got hurt. When infact it is you who are hurt.
2026-11-08 08:34:49
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