Dr. Vincent Barbieri
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Friday 06 November 2026 00:10:23 GMT
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Nastacya Wallace :
ladies don't do that for any man!!!! Let his therapist do it for him. I tried it 6 times, almost lost my life😳
2026-11-06 02:31:44
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HoosierChampionNow :
It has to be dealt with in a parent child type interaction, not marriage.
2026-11-06 12:53:53
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UnknownAlgae 🇨🇦 :
Ladies, this one is not for you babes, we are not the mother cat to scared men!
2026-11-06 02:55:25
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Lexie :
That’s a mom & a baby. We’re not men’s mothers. They have their own.
2026-11-06 12:19:57
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wowyouneedtherapy :
Okay for anyone watching this thinking this is a sign, it is not. This is a kitten, not a human adult.
2026-11-06 03:05:08
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🧿🌀🪼🦋🌪️🏵️✨ :
its called consistency !
2026-11-10 01:50:45
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Dr. Vincent Barbieri :
Just to be clear: when I say “withstand discomfort” I do not mean expose oneself to abuse, the kitten is a METAPHOR for mistrust, not emotional or physical abuse. Don’t expose yourself to abuse just to heal someone, that itself is evidence of an unhealed attachment issue. I’m also not talking about romantic relationships, I’m speaking more broadly on how any safe relationship can be healing.
2026-11-06 17:29:47
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freya_2460 :
The comments here are rough. My husband and I have been together 20+ years. We healed each other. We weren’t harmful or dangerous to each other, but both raised to be fearful attachment by dangerous mothers. We both have healthy attachment now.
2026-11-06 14:52:54
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Mark Taylor :
🤮 Leave them when you’re mistreated or the fearful attachment partner will hurt you very badly. We shouldn’t encourage partners to tolerate emotional abuse.
2026-11-06 04:51:39
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Booky Boo :
That is why some men should stay when their woman lashes out,once she heals and trusts you....it's sooo amazing 😍. Hold your frame don't fight back guys.
2026-11-09 13:00:46
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Caroline Clarity ✨ :
Can confirm that being around a secure nervous system has quite literally rewired my brain and thus rewired my life, I feel safe to actually just be myself. It feels liberating.
2026-11-09 14:26:18
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Philip :
i wish it could work on humans tho....
2026-11-06 02:15:21
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jodee2251 :
I have an old landlord/ father figure/ mentor that went through my drinking phase and loved me through it until I got sober. now I know how it feels to have a father.
2026-11-06 01:14:47
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Ελένη Π. :
the mother cat is my therapist [Tears of joy][Tears of joy][Tears of joy]
2026-11-06 00:17:49
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Glenn :
“A Mother’s Love: Sweet Moments with Her Adorable Kitten! 🐱❤️🐾”
2026-11-09 05:51:03
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Marie Moreau :
I agree and when I realized this very specific analogy about the foster kitten is when not only I healed from fearful avoidant but my husband did as well.
2026-11-09 12:07:53
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Chick_witha_stick :
This is dangerous to present bc that mother cat does not feel the horrific pain on the other side of an avoidant .
2026-11-06 03:19:09
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Tash Riley :
My man did this for me and showed me safety. He completely open my view on the world. Now we are the best team ❤️
2026-11-06 04:36:35
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Auntie Monie :
Thankfully, I'm no grown man's mom. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-11-06 02:35:55
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TheDirtyMustache :
Except add that the kitten lies and disrespects you, is shady and secretive and cheats
2026-11-06 02:20:17
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Howdy Boy 💜🩷🤍🧡❤️ :
I feel like the only danger to this mindset is there are people who, mostly unconsciously, believe they have to earn love through suffering through another persons projected pain. So you have to know when to draw the line of what is allowable behavior and when it goes from fear response to abusive actions.
2026-11-06 02:02:28
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hoonietunes :
It’s different when the kitten is a cat. You can seriously get hurt. And I WILL NOT take that abuse!
2026-11-06 01:46:42
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CORNS :
It’s still going to leave the mom at the end
2026-11-08 02:42:47
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Brandee :
This is why I enjoyed working with incarcerated individuals so much. So rewarding to help individuals heal their fearful attachment styles and watching them share a vulnerability they didn't even know was inside of them ❤️
2026-11-07 22:50:42
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FeralCat&FeralMe :
Awwww! And the way the foster momma kitty turns her head & looks at the baby. 🥰
2026-11-07 19:47:07
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