yeah. I’m not gonna unpack that for myself just yet. 🥲
2026-11-06 04:55:35
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༺✮༻ :
Didn’t know I logged into my therapy session at 11pm
2026-11-06 03:51:25
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Deebug :
I think you need to see this…
2026-11-06 23:25:18
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Kristallyn :
I’m going through the same thing and I feel replaceable.
2026-11-06 05:38:07
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user5163163777942 :
If saying no makes you feel like a terrible person, look into "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" by C. Morgan. The whole boundaries topic is so relevant 😭
2026-11-06 16:27:25
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all4koi :
my therapist did the same for me but it healed me over time to self realize the clarity. here's a knife, love. get rid of that image of him that was never real. you got this.
2026-11-06 06:35:36
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Molly Ella :
Okay I actually disagree with this. I think you can mean a lot to someone and they can still fuck it up/not know how to value you if they don’t value themselves ya know?
2026-11-06 01:02:19
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Lin_savage :
It’s the truth but it hurts so deeply 💔
2026-11-06 21:39:52
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fatima :
omg girl not right now please fr
2026-11-06 06:13:06
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Post-call Tunes :
I was in the same exact situation and it hurt so bad. Idk if you’re a musical girly but listening to we do not belong together from sunday in the park with george was v healing for me
2026-11-06 20:07:30
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kaRiN :
Ouch. I guess I needed this.
2026-11-06 21:31:19
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elaine :
“if you meant something to him he wouldn’t treat you this way…” ouch but i needed to hear that :/
2026-11-06 05:31:53
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tashaaaaaa 🫶🏽 :
girl you could’ve held my hand.
2026-11-06 07:08:48
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Anissa Ramos :
Cool cool cool cool
2026-11-06 18:19:07
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federica :
I saw a video once about how men put circumstances before connection and women do the opposite. I think men can really truly care but if the circumstances aren’t what they want or don’t align.. they can leave
2026-11-06 06:02:07
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Zeeme :
Yeah, that just hit me in all five dimensions.
2026-11-06 02:25:59
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Angelia :
Too real unfortunately 😭
2026-11-06 02:59:54
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AC :
Yea and it teaches us something important, love is a choice, not just a feeling and if someone truly loves you, it will be without obligation.
2026-11-06 04:13:42
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izzyfurry4 :
Eh. But, as a 40 yr old healed and thriving woman… some (a lot) of men are incapable of nurturing even when they love something. That’s why their lives don’t blossom. I would have said he meant more to you because you have more depth within you. And I believe that is probably true.
2026-11-06 06:01:39
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babyopossumprincess :
No I disagree. Just because she’s a therapist doesn’t mean everything she says is correct. A person’s actions are not always a reflection of how they feel for you. It’s also about their capacity to treat you well and some people don’t have the tools
2026-11-06 04:22:05
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jess :
Is this my sign to actually go to therapy 🥹
2026-11-06 06:05:31
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cosmicpawprint5 :
I’m so sick of men fumbling beautiful women
2026-11-06 05:12:31
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Kat :
Took me a year and a half to realize this
2026-11-06 04:52:35
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Sav :
Wow! Wish I never heard this!😹😹
2026-11-06 00:43:45
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