@allyshaps: So this is a heavy one - and if you’re new here you’re in for a story time. But I’m thinking about meeting my bio dad and curious if anyone else has been through the same thing #donor #bio #family #advice
you said “raised by my dad, by bobby, now gary” and I lowkey feel like why the hell not, what’s a fourth dad LOL
2026-11-06 04:20:07
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Carenzee :
I wouldn’t. Send him a questionnaire for him to fill out with anything you want to know.
2026-11-06 02:55:41
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lifesnippetsofme :
Meet up w him. It’s important to understand where you come from. From spiritual to medical reasons. It may sound or be overwhelming, but in the end it could be really wonderful. I was estranged from my bio dad and regret not knowing more bc it turns out I’m mostly like his side of the family and my kid has so many of the same characteristics that remain somewhat of a mystery. Do it for yourself and your future offspring.
2026-11-06 02:02:41
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Julie Turkel :
What a wild unique story. Sounds like a book or movie in the making
2026-11-06 01:59:30
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Life of A Short Girl :
He’s not your “dad” he’s a biological component of you. Unless his intention when donating was to meet you one day I wouldn’t pursue it. I’d ask his intentions when donating. He could have simply been a college kid needing money at the time.
2026-11-06 12:29:48
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no_edit_renee :
My vote. Meet him. [Red heart]
2026-11-06 02:14:35
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MLYNNC :
THEY MIXED UP THE DONOR 😳 How did your mum deal with this !? … was there a settlement? I would have SUED !!!!!
2026-11-06 16:34:28
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Erin :
Just because he isn’t your “Dad” doesn’t mean he can’t be your Dad… meet him, if it isn’t the vibes then don’t do it again 🤷🏼♀️
2026-11-06 03:01:32
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Mac :
Totally understandable!! Xoxo
2026-11-06 16:20:26
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jenna :
I would meet him
2026-11-06 15:19:45
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Harris Jo 2222 :
Meet before it is too late and you have regrets.
2026-11-06 02:28:55
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Nygirlinaz16 :
I’d at least want family medical history and heritage info since it’s not the one your mom picked. I’d want someone with me if I met him though just for safety.
2026-11-06 02:22:43
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woodstock76 :
I hear Jill while listening to you 🤣
2026-11-06 03:24:31
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audilialozada :
Meet him
2026-11-06 15:45:00
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Lovetorun67 :
This is so interesting. Yes meet him.
2026-11-06 03:16:38
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Nicole :
Definitely meet him
2026-11-06 11:13:29
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Macintosh :
I feel like Bobby would be right behind you on this!
2026-11-06 05:34:29
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Diane Lauricella Storniola :
I think you should meet him.
2026-11-06 02:41:46
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Jenessa G :
Meet him
2026-11-06 03:18:52
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Melinda Strauss ✡️ :
It is totally understandable for you to want to meet him!
2026-11-06 02:01:44
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Barbara Borden :
Yes meet him and learn more about yourself. You will always wonder if you don’t. Just my take.
2026-11-06 03:22:18
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Gage :
I’d at least meet him so you can find out about his family and medical history.
2026-11-06 03:12:58
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MySpicyTaco069 :
Meet Him ASAP! You will finally feel complete. Cheers to You!🎉🎊🥂🍾
2026-11-06 02:33:18
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Mr. Big and Penny Lane :
I think you should meet him… don’t put it off.🥰
2026-11-06 02:18:22
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Heather Unsupervised :
I think it would be kewl to see him and how he reacts to things how he thinks or believes and see if any of that transferred to you just because of DNA knowing he wasn't apart of your life. I never met my dad and felt very fulfilled in life but I would've loved to have met him as an adult, learned more about my biological family history and medical histories. but he died when I was 12. also, its kinda kewl to meet him or other extended family who you look like.
2026-11-06 13:50:03
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