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12ouroboros
Kelvin :
its galactic goofy actually
2026-11-06 03:16:37
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brightwellian
Brightwellian :
I thought “no means no” and then a woman says she’s not interested, boom, that’s it, you’re done, leave them alone. That’s what I’ve understood, or am I wrong? Should I be persistent when they say no? Or listen to them and leave them be?🤷🏻
2026-11-06 03:08:27
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poormansporsche96
BRZ guy :
if she's talking to another guy he can have her I don't want it.
2026-11-06 09:46:49
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mattteofrancis
MateoFrancis :
I refuse to be pathetic or seen as creepy
2026-11-06 05:05:49
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ddddaaaawwww
DAW :
The thing is I want to be wanted. If a woman shows a lack of interest in me, I’m not going to want to pursue her because her lack of interest would only make me lose mine
2026-11-06 04:52:29
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nareisraelyan
nareisraelyan :
I think it’s weird and they don’t respect your word
2026-11-06 05:31:38
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zach_norris6
Zach N :
Maybe it’s just me, but I would think it’d be a nightmare to be with someone to be around someone who thinks "No" is a challenge.
2026-11-06 02:40:03
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devengraham48
devengraham48 :
It’s weird how people want others to be basically romantically unemployed for them to just randomly hit them back one day after you move on from them then call you weird for not going after them like it was a blessing to have them want you back 🤦🏿‍♂️😂
2026-11-06 04:00:53
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firalioue
Firalioue :
"She busy lil bro" but as an actual Dating tip
2026-11-06 04:17:47
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a.james.h
AJH🏳️‍⚧️ :
Some doors close and they close forever
2026-11-06 04:57:26
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j.oewin
joe n :
Definitely agree. Don’t be somebody’s back up plan. Don’t dwell on rejection just move on to the next!
2026-11-06 03:31:01
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display006
Mes :
why would I keep chasing a women who isn't interested in me?
2026-11-06 12:26:07
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mzkayir
kayir :
If I keep pursuing someone who didn't say yes to me it feels like I don't respect their rejection
2026-11-06 03:23:54
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gpantaleo2705
lifebloodcistern :
Literally, chasing behavior is so exhausting. I’ll do my part, but I’m not chasing anyone. Shits gotta be equal.
2026-11-06 13:31:51
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ziggygamma
Ziggy :
Maybe I’m at such a low point in my life that I agree I’ll take what I can get. And I hate it. It sucks. And I’m trying to bury that thinking.
2026-11-06 02:41:42
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mishab1000
MishaB1000 :
I think the issue is that there are both men and women who try to justify their selfish and narcissistic behaviors as some sort of social good
2026-11-06 15:35:06
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user8133785713221
user8133785713221 :
I don't have enough dopamine to chase
2026-11-06 14:37:47
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crajabli
chingiz :
If someone doesn’t return the same amount of interest in 1-2 weeks I immediately get icked out and lose most of the feelings
2026-11-06 04:44:06
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___________lllllllll :
It simply creates toxic relationships where one thinks she’s the price so you’ll have to keep chasing her for life even when you’re in the relationship
2026-11-06 04:37:25
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itsthemademan
ItstheMadeMan :
Women call them their "homeboys"
2026-11-06 03:27:55
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gnak7
King Arthur :
You should be into people who are into you, relationships should be mutual interest not one person constantly trying to appease the other one. If i ever approached a girl first and I sensed her interest wasn’t as high as mine I would either lower my own interest to match her, or lose interest entirely. Stop seeing relationships as jobs
2026-11-06 05:00:45
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true_letas
TheLazyPoet :
If they ghost you, respect the dead - PNI.
2026-11-06 13:29:34
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117arbiter
Arbiter :
Men stop chasing good men don’t chase we attract. Simps chase the “good guys “chase the really good men don’t chase
2026-11-06 13:42:32
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pittyputty71
pittyputty :
I think its fine advice if you ALSO are doing stuff, are busy, or dating around. If you're not, and actively trying pursue this woman for the purpose of making her your girlfriend because you already know you like her, then dont do it. Only take the advice if you have a lot going on in your life as well, and you can meet back up at a later time and date then, so it wont be a missed connection.
2026-11-06 05:23:14
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moonieeelee
moonie :
people should have their own boundaries around this and i dont believe in chasing relentlessly, but so much of the advice online is black/white. people start tweaking if a stranger is not immediately jumping up and down at the thought of going out with them. everyones an option at some point
2026-11-06 02:47:01
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