Dating in your 20s and dating in your 30s can look very different. A lot of women say that by 30, they are no longer interested in being someone's girlfriend for years without a plan. They want clear intentions, consistency and a partner who sees them as a future wife. Some men say this is fair and actually makes dating easier, because everyone knows where they stand. Others feel it puts too much pressure on the first few dates and turns romance into a checklist. There's also the question of whether men should have the same mindset at that age. Which side are you on? - @browneyedgurl801