@profahmedhankir: We Don’t Talk Enough About Betrayal Trauma If someone had told you what they were going to do, you might have defended them. “I know this person. They would never do that to me.” And then they did. You can know exactly what happened and still lie awake thinking, “How could it have been you?” You’re taking in the betrayal while grieving the future you thought you were building together. If that’s where you are right now, my heart goes out to you. #BetrayalTrauma #Infidelity #Gaslighting #HealingAfterBetrayal #MentalHealth

Adrian Anderson :

It's been 6 years and I'm still stuck in yesterday.

renee-on-tiktok 🇨🇦 :

Agreed and it’s absolutely disgusting how it’s normalized as if it’s not that big a deal by society/movies/tv shows etc

Jeferson Rezende Pra :

Has anyone else done NoorAshby archetype quiz yet? Some parts felt super obvious but then it got weirdly specific out of nowhere.

SilkandSatin :

Including in friendships … my brain is forever injured due to betrayal

GenXWarrior :

Even worse when it’s your OWN FAMILY who betrays you.

lou :

I needed to hear this today

stephani338 :

Gaslighting is just awful feeling it’s deep and makes you question your own sanity

Paulos :

There is a particular kind of heartbreak in loving someone you can no longer have in your life. You don't suddenly stop loving someone because their behaviour becomes unacceptable. You don't erase the memories, the laughter, the tenderness or the moments when you genuinely believed in them. But eventually, love has to confront reality. And sometimes that reality is painful, frightening and impossible to ignore. Perhaps the saddest thing is that you can still care about someone while knowing that protecting yourself means letting them go. I'm not celebrating that. I'm grieving it. But I am choosing myself. Because love should never require you to sacrifice your safety, your dignity or your peace.

user29812285665586 :

Was with mine for 22 years

_MMmonikaaa_ :

Topic like this still trigger me though IM at peace now

pattypatricia466 :

It took me 15 years to recover from it.

SummerSlidesInc :

including siblings and family members

mickmartin595 :

Moral Injury

Marion :

💯 Cheating, betrayal turned into victim blaming and gaslighting.

Usha Devi Nursing :

The fact that people don't understand it and say that you should be over it by now is ine of the most devastating things. It truly is one of things you won't understand until you go through it yourself. Thank you again for saying it in much simpler terms [Red heart]

rags_by_the_dozen :

and thats on dismissive avoidant...

stormi24 :

This is one of the things so difficult to get your head around.

Lorne :

45 years and it still rises and attacks

Mel :

very difficult to recover from betrayal 😞

BukuriaNanes :

🥺.ja

Gary :

deannajordan426 :

you are spot on x

Susanne Safiyyah :

Thanks for your words… it feels like the protection around the soul gots fragile…

fran chico and rolo :

My so called best friend I’ve cut her off

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