@threadtalkpodcast: #aita For Cancelling My $12000 CHECK That I Wrote For My Infertile Friend For Her Next IVF Cycle Over A Joke? #reddit #redditstories #podcast
My opinion is if this cycle IVF was successful that OP would be cut off from the friendship because the friend would not want to be around her anymore because she didn’t consider herself in the struggle and would not want to be reminded of where she came from. Go no contact and realized you dodged a bullet.
2026-11-06 15:34:25
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EM Harding :
"you're correct, sir, I stopped being a supportive friend, or any kind of friend to your wife, when she used frankly devestating events from my life as a joke. wishing you all the best, though, byeeeeee"
2026-11-06 15:56:41
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Katrin Topkin :
Did the friend helped OP with 12K back then???
2026-11-06 15:23:48
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Madylyon :
I'd cancel the check too. She's not a friend.
2026-11-06 17:54:04
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r sc :
Nta
2026-11-06 16:40:36
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Phoenix Kasai :
okay you guys saying "if they don't have money for IVF then they can't afford a kid" aren't factoring shit properly you can more easily manage the money for raising a child compared to medical shit that will build debt
2026-11-07 19:29:26
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SailorLily :
so you're telling me. a "friend" of 15 years, gets given 12k by their friend, and then immediately goes to someone else to be like "thank god she gave me that 12k, id hate to end up like her" and then say its a "joke" yeah nah. fuck her. OP is not the asshole in the slightest. and im gonna throw money down its men in those comments saying her worth is tied to bearing children.
2026-11-06 19:15:40
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AjeButta :
She is an adult, she knew exactly what she meant by saying that statement.
2026-11-06 14:23:16
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splifftie 🇨🇦 :
$12,000 would help her adopt her own child
2026-11-06 14:21:56
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Stupot :
NTA. Choices have consequences.
2026-11-06 15:22:37
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KaribbeanGirl🇻🇬🇧🇧 :
Not the AH! She can go to hell!!
2026-11-06 14:12:42
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BackgroundLogic :
They'd just raise the kid to mock their friends behind their back, why help them make someone like that?
2026-11-06 15:44:06
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SockyMcSockenstein :
if she cannot afford 12k for a cycle how is she expecting to afford a child
2026-11-06 18:45:53
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BAM Braga :
wtf a inside joke, who's fucking laughing
2026-11-06 18:58:42
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erin_dood :
Friends don’t mock tragedies. She was using her and like another commenter said I also think she would’ve dropped the friendship with op if it took
2026-11-06 20:45:40
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Lucy Earley🍊 :
But it wasn’t a joke, it was a personal conversation she had with another friend. I mean seeing her friend go through that, surely she can see that being a fear for her knowing that could happen? Especially her being on the same path, it’s likely a huge fear and she didn’t want to go through the emotions her friend did. I think the other friend who sent it to her is an asshole- she knew it would cause drama and upset so fuelled it. Just sad that she couldn’t rant and speak about her feelings to someone without drama being started and her dreams being crushed
2026-11-07 08:21:08
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justjade92 :
It wasn’t a joke! She just didn’t like the consequences!
2026-11-07 10:28:43
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Onyinyedike :
It wasn't a joke, it was mockery.
It's normal to feel conflicted for cancelling the cheque but it's perfect to cancelled it.
She mocked every part of your situation and called it an inside joke?
Her fears and mockery will come to pass too.
Ungrateful evil friend.
Who needs enemies when you can have a friend like this.
Travel with your 12k love and be joyful.
2026-11-07 06:37:31
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kreemurr :
i... wouldve done worse than just void that check
2026-11-07 16:35:24
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Lulu :
[Innocent][Innocent][Innocent]
2026-11-06 20:31:39
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🪼 :
Carol is a true one and Alessia could have delivered the same message without a direct remark towards the writer. AND NOT EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO HAVING KIDS. Also you don’t have the many for ivf, you have money for a kid? That’s a money black hole
2026-11-06 23:19:03
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