☀️yami🪲 :
I was in the same boat as you! I dated my ex gf from freshman year to junior year, and recently got with my new boyfriend this july. For a long time i thought it wouldnt get better and that i would never get over her, and that id never learn to live without her. It may seem hard now and ik everyone says “time heals”, but since youre in college and you wont be seeing your ex as often it WILL get better. As painful as it might be, get rid of any trinkets that might remind you of your ex, get rid of old habits and routines that you did together, and “distract” yourself. Im not saying to avoid thinking about it altogether because that will just end up piling and bottling up and you’ll never truly get over it. Im saying to focus on things that you werent able to do before when you were in a relationship. After i broke up w my ex gf, i got back into guitar, drawing, and singing, and i went on trips with my friends and hung out with them way more. When you think of your ex, dont try to push them out of your head. Process why youre feeling that way, remind yourself that its okay that youve parted ways, and that there is so much more to life than this one instance. You can do it!!
2026-11-07 04:50:11