@bennylichtenwalner: If you've broken up or separated but you're still living with your ex, the comfortable access they have to you is working against you. When they know your schedule and see you around the house all the time, they stop paying attention. Stop being the sure bet. Start with the show you always watch together, and if you have kids, get a schedule handled so you can do something new and social. They'll get mad, and you'll have to sit through it. Married or together for years and it's falling apart? DM me ROOTS and I'll message you back.