@m0bettapina: I can’t believe it’s 3 years into widowhood… and some days I’m still just trying to hold it together. ❤️🩹 I miss James. I miss being his wife, our life together, and the version of me that existed before losing him. 💔 I may never speak of him without crying, and that’s okay. Just because I smile and keep going doesn’t mean it isn’t HEAVY. But I choose to LIVE. For James, our kids, and ME. Because I know he’d want me happy. 🤍 THAT’S the POWER in HEALING. Learning to find joy again without feeling guilty for still grieving. My fellow widows… do you ever feel like everyone sees your strength but not your pain? Like can I just be soft again 💔😫🥹 #PowerInHealing #Widowhood #GriefJourney #LifeAfterLoss
I know honey, and I’m so sorry that you are living this hell. I never imagined I would still be so utterly shattered 16 years later, and I truly hope it will be different for you. But I KNOW every single thing you are feeling. ❤️🩹
2026-11-07 00:51:29
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alexandra gomez50 :
8 years .I found someone special but I still have my moments 😭
2026-11-06 18:47:40
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melissajohnson24252425 :
15 months today and my brain is in a constant screaming in my body. I dont think it will ever stop
2026-11-07 00:07:53
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super_dee13 :
2 years and so tired of hearing how strong I am..
2026-11-06 22:19:16
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𝓻𝓸𝓫𝔂𝓷 ✨️ :
3 years for me my mind sounds like this. I cry in silence so no one hears me [Crying]
2026-11-07 01:00:19
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1970deedee :
11 years and still hurts
2026-11-06 18:37:25
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Roscoe 💙🐶 :
4 years, remembering all the good times
2026-11-06 19:20:25
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💙Care💙 :
You’re not alone, thank you for the reminder I’m not either. It will be 3 years in January and I have been missing him so hard I cried all the way into work. 🩶
2026-11-06 18:44:51
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Joni ✨️ :
Everyone mourn differently. You do what feels right. ✨️
2026-11-06 18:44:54
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melinda brown :
4 years still trying to move forward
2026-11-06 21:50:24
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bori_0727 :
I’m so sorry for ur loss😢
2026-11-06 18:23:13
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Kendall :
It’s been 19 months for me and when people tell me I’m strong I want to laugh in their faces
2026-11-07 00:03:04
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theadventuesofmaxandco :
Almost at the 1 year mark.. love you and I feel you
2026-11-07 01:29:56
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DiMe :
100% true, going on 4 years
2026-11-07 02:02:50
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Karina Sente :
Almost 3 years … 😔
2026-11-07 00:52:06
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CillaInTheCity :
I’ll never forget it I was so heartbroken. Always have you in my heart Melissa ❤️
2026-11-06 18:33:22
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DivaStylistMUA | Lifestyle60+ :
My day today
2026-11-07 01:16:26
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313VibesWithVee :
Sending hugs and prayers 🫂.... I just hit my two years into widowhood this past Monday and it still feels like yesterday. 😭❤️🩹🙏🏾
2026-11-07 05:16:13
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EricaLoren❌ :
Exactly this. Five years, six in January for me and it’s the same noise inside. Some days just quieter. Sometimes I don’t want to be strong.
2026-11-07 07:02:09
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Arthur :
Just past the 2 year mark....
2026-11-07 02:12:06
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lilkel27 :
you are not alone🥰🥰
2026-11-07 00:08:07
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Amber Castillo :
Almost 3 months in 😭 I’m not happy!!!!!
2026-11-07 00:02:22
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Karla Messenger :
IT eventually quietly calms
2026-11-07 00:00:36
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MarisaAverill80 :
3 years for me too 😢
2026-11-06 18:26:44
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