@m0bettapina: I can’t believe it’s 3 years into widowhood… and some days I’m still just trying to hold it together. ❤️‍🩹 I miss James. I miss being his wife, our life together, and the version of me that existed before losing him. 💔 I may never speak of him without crying, and that’s okay. Just because I smile and keep going doesn’t mean it isn’t HEAVY. But I choose to LIVE. For James, our kids, and ME. Because I know he’d want me happy. 🤍 THAT’S the POWER in HEALING. Learning to find joy again without feeling guilty for still grieving. My fellow widows… do you ever feel like everyone sees your strength but not your pain? Like can I just be soft again 💔😫🥹 #PowerInHealing #Widowhood #GriefJourney #LifeAfterLoss

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thebookloverinme
thebookloverinme :
🤍hugs .. I am only 4 months in .
2026-11-07 04:02:49
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bodhibearmsn.rn
BodhiBear2021 :
I know honey, and I’m so sorry that you are living this hell. I never imagined I would still be so utterly shattered 16 years later, and I truly hope it will be different for you. But I KNOW every single thing you are feeling. ❤️‍🩹
2026-11-07 00:51:29
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alexandracabrer23
alexandra gomez50 :
8 years .I found someone special but I still have my moments 😭
2026-11-06 18:47:40
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melissajohnson24252425
melissajohnson24252425 :
15 months today and my brain is in a constant screaming in my body. I dont think it will ever stop
2026-11-07 00:07:53
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super_dee13
super_dee13 :
2 years and so tired of hearing how strong I am..
2026-11-06 22:19:16
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robynlynne_
𝓻𝓸𝓫𝔂𝓷 ✨️ :
3 years for me my mind sounds like this. I cry in silence so no one hears me [Crying]
2026-11-07 01:00:19
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1970deedee
1970deedee :
11 years and still hurts
2026-11-06 18:37:25
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carolappleton0
Roscoe 💙🐶 :
4 years, remembering all the good times
2026-11-06 19:20:25
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carebdub
💙Care💙 :
You’re not alone, thank you for the reminder I’m not either. It will be 3 years in January and I have been missing him so hard I cried all the way into work. 🩶
2026-11-06 18:44:51
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jonilee441
Joni ✨️ :
Everyone mourn differently. You do what feels right. ✨️
2026-11-06 18:44:54
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melindavalenzuela6
melinda brown :
4 years still trying to move forward
2026-11-06 21:50:24
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bori_0727
bori_0727 :
I’m so sorry for ur loss😢
2026-11-06 18:23:13
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josiahsmimi
Kendall :
It’s been 19 months for me and when people tell me I’m strong I want to laugh in their faces
2026-11-07 00:03:04
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theadventuesofmaxandco
theadventuesofmaxandco :
Almost at the 1 year mark.. love you and I feel you
2026-11-07 01:29:56
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dime6852
DiMe :
100% true, going on 4 years
2026-11-07 02:02:50
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karina.sente
Karina Sente :
Almost 3 years … 😔
2026-11-07 00:52:06
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cillainthecity
CillaInTheCity :
I’ll never forget it I was so heartbroken. Always have you in my heart Melissa ❤️
2026-11-06 18:33:22
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divastylistmua
DivaStylistMUA | Lifestyle60+ :
My day today
2026-11-07 01:16:26
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hiswifetheirmomv4
313VibesWithVee :
Sending hugs and prayers 🫂.... I just hit my two years into widowhood this past Monday and it still feels like yesterday. 😭❤️‍🩹🙏🏾
2026-11-07 05:16:13
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ericachargualaf
EricaLoren❌ :
Exactly this. Five years, six in January for me and it’s the same noise inside. Some days just quieter. Sometimes I don’t want to be strong.
2026-11-07 07:02:09
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justnuts4it2
Arthur :
Just past the 2 year mark....
2026-11-07 02:12:06
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lilkel27
lilkel27 :
you are not alone🥰🥰
2026-11-07 00:08:07
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allyssa0216
Amber Castillo :
Almost 3 months in 😭 I’m not happy!!!!!
2026-11-07 00:02:22
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karla.messenger
Karla Messenger :
IT eventually quietly calms
2026-11-07 00:00:36
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marisaaverill80
MarisaAverill80 :
3 years for me too 😢
2026-11-06 18:26:44
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