@ask_julia: What to do when another woman flirts with your man using emotional intelligence? Why should you do when another woman flirts with your boyfriend in public? Most women react with jealousy attitude or confrontation, but psychology and neuroscience tells us different. When you react emotional emotionally, your brain and Magdala is firing and that’s the threat response. But women who stay, calm, confident, and unbothered are operating from the prefrontal cortex, which is a part of the brain, responsible for emotional control and high Status behavior. In dating in relationships, composure signals confidence. And confidence changes the entire dynamic in the room. A truly high value woman doesn’t compete for attention, she lets her presence speak for herself. So the real question is do you react emotionally or do you stay the prize? #datingadviceforwomen #femaleconfidence #highvaluewoman
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Friday 06 November 2026 18:33:03 GMT
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o.m.g.jen :
I’d start flirting with her and make it weird 😂 (I’m straight btw)
2026-11-06 22:59:43
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Fawn :
His reactions all that matters.
2026-11-06 21:11:54
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Veenahbeenah :
If he flirts back, I’m done. Walk the fuck away! I ain’t fighting for someone I never had.
2026-11-06 22:35:21
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Janessa :
Ima be looking at him
2026-11-06 20:47:10
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There was a lady that hit on my man and he immediately clutched his pearls and moved behind me 😂
2026-11-07 13:53:54
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Nikki BakNdaday :
Ha it was a girl on the elevator staring my man down I just smiled and said “handsome ain’t he” cuz girl I know 🥰🥰
2026-11-06 23:06:48
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Brie :
I mean if she can get him she can have him im always protecting my peace
2026-11-06 22:50:30
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Jessica :
I don’t have that kind of man. He thinks he’s everyone’s friend.
2026-11-06 21:37:21
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Hannah :
end her?? end him?? END ALL 3 OF US?
2026-11-07 00:23:33
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🥀⛓️💥Bobcatt⛓️💥🥀 :
He was flirting with the bartender the night he proposed 🙄
2026-11-06 21:41:30
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Peter charles Braley :
give a man a reason to stay he stays you keep saying where simple but yet you can't figure us out
2026-11-07 12:37:00
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Lovelisa :
Right , I ignore them both
2026-11-07 12:22:49
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🇵🇱Miss Janka|BrownPolka🇵🇭 :
I’m not even reacting I can give you with all my heart. 😂😂😂
2026-11-07 13:40:37
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askjulia :
Remember, pay attention to his reaction
2026-11-06 18:51:50
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SupX7 :
AnwenReid anxiety quiz inspired me to pay attention to the moments when my shoulders are practically touching my ears 😭 A tiny breathing pause is now my reminder to unclench and reset.
2026-11-07 04:14:35
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queenofswords7 :
it’s the disrespect for me
2026-11-06 23:51:09
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iu piiiii :
AnwenReid anxiety quiz inspired me to try a little self-compassion journaling. Writing to myself like I would to a friend has been surprisingly moving. ❤️It has made my routine feel more personal.
2026-11-07 04:14:30
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salma :
It happened to me once and i just left them and went to talk to another guy and he came running after me
2026-11-07 00:14:03
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Bridgedhobbs 🍓 :
I’m actually too dumb to understand that there’s flirting going on until after the interaction. I’m usually thinking she’s talking to the both of us until later I realize what went on.
2026-11-06 22:51:26
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Sammanthasev :
I’m watching his reaction the entire time and if he’s clearly uncomfortable and pushes her away, then that’s when I step in. But if he allows it, she can have him
2026-11-07 01:09:27
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shellyl :
If my person entertains that girl, she can keep them. Now, if that girl was told to move along and go away and she continues then I’ll shut it down.
2026-11-06 22:39:22
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KayNova_13 :
. . . I literally just mind my business 😭 the way he shoots down people quick
2026-11-06 21:00:38
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MIND.YOU :
My man is not allowed outside. So…..
2026-11-07 00:32:54
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reinadelley :
I laugh extra loud at her jokes and even throw some back like she’s flirting with me.
2026-11-06 21:39:43
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nayibe_rodriguez09 :
YUP
2026-11-07 01:30:43
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