Alllleeeennnn
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Asiah :
if you can’t trust your partner with friends of the opposite gender, why even be in a relationship with them if you can’t trust them? people be able to have friends of opposite genders without having feelings for them
2026-11-07 05:24:43
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Mateo :
People don’t realize these takes says more about them than it does about any body else’s relationship. If you can’t be friends with someone of the opposite sex because you feel like theirs a chance they can obtain you, then you are the problem. You can throw me in an apartment with nothing but women who want me, they will not have me and I won’t be interested, I have my woman, and I have my boundaries, if anyone oversteps those boundaries, then they are no more
2026-11-07 03:29:29
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meg <3 :
it’s healthy to be friends with the opposite genders for both
2026-11-06 23:46:10
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S.E.E.S_P3 :
What happens to bisexual people
2026-11-07 05:45:00
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gogosbatista :
I told her that I was feeling uncomfortable with her guy friend and she call me controlling long story short we break up and guess with who is she now after 1 week
2026-11-06 23:36:38
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joselyn :
What if my best guy friend looks like this
2026-11-07 03:00:41
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laurent :
Tell them that they’ll call you insecure 💀
2026-11-06 23:36:48
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Pete Wilson970 :
I don't think it's fair to lose genuine friendships just because of what might happen. If a line is crossed that's one thing.
2026-11-07 03:31:49
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soul_.sick :
It’s called having a secure relationship! If you can’t be secure in your relationship then don’t be in one! Boundaries are not that hard to keep!
2026-11-07 02:48:03
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Matthew Curiel :
respectful distance ... im shocked people try harder to do bs for the sake of unfettered autonomy than to just be consistent and having discipline to maintain relational safety in shared connections. especially at the point a partner is feeling challenged or uncomfortable. thats a sign restructure in how you move is good to consider if you value the connection you got. if you value access to the unsafe bond you engaging in ... cool but dont expect a self respecting partner to stick around.
2026-11-07 05:18:24
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trace :
yeah bc im dropin my 1st grade hg that has a bf and got me with ppl before js bc im dating someone if you cant handle a friendship thats js insecurity, look i overthink a lot but I would never tell my gf she can't be friends w someone bc there a boy
2026-11-07 05:11:47
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Mrbittykat 𒉭 ﾒ𝟶 :
No.. I know who they are, they’d be a terrible partner.. great friends though
2026-11-07 03:31:16
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Libby :
We can agree to disagree 🤣 there is nothing going on with my bestie.
2026-11-07 03:27:06
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J :
I got a couple hgs but I get it. I stay out of the way
2026-11-07 03:38:04
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Cryptic :
facts
2026-11-07 01:50:49
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Axel ⚓️ :
Worst take of all time
2026-11-07 04:05:20
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Libby :
That’s called being insecure lol
2026-11-07 03:28:06
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:
I can be friends with the opposite sex my girl can’t
2026-11-07 03:49:56
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vagabond :
yall need some self reflection clearly lmfao
2026-11-07 02:51:48
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Hunter Gaenslen :
The "were only friends" girl he had, that I asked MULTIPLE times about, was sending pics of her a$$ telling him to look how good it looks, her in her underwear while we were together and lied about dating her before we met AND had old naked photos and videos of her on his phone. Then got mad at me for reacting the way I did
2026-11-07 02:09:14
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Alllleeeennnn :
Being friends with the opposite sex doesn’t automatically lead to an emotional affair but, you are constantly at risk of creating an emotional connection that occupies space that should be intentionally protected within your relationship. Sharing your deepest insecurities, turning to someone else when your emotionally distressed, discussing intimate details about your relationship, seeking validation/ reassurance/ or admiration, giving access to parts of yourself that your partner rarely experiences. The issue isn't necessarily having friends of the opposite sex. It's understanding what role those friendships play in your life, what emotional needs they fulfill, and whether they compromise the relationship you're committed to building. All of this taken into account, what’s got you all so triggered?
2026-11-07 04:20:58
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Enjin :
Men and women can be just friends without any feelings developing or inappropriate behavior happening saying otherwise shows that you might be insecure
2026-11-07 05:29:08
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Shaun :
!!
2026-11-07 03:48:48
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Godking248 :
Bro, all you're doing is telling on yourself. All you're saying is that you have no self-control. You see the opposite sex as primarily fuck material and you can't be trusted around the opposite sex because there is a real likelihood that you will fucking step out and cheat. All you're doing is telling on yourself.
2026-11-07 03:54:37
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Alllleeeennnn :
The same people that are triggered are watching their partners follower count, overthinking space, and hyper dependent on their partner to remain regulated. An associate of the opposite sex is not the same position as a close friend of the opposite sex. A close friendship requires emotional investment, intimate connection, and a certain level of mutual participation to grow that friendship.
2026-11-07 05:34:35
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