@growwithkaela: Growing up in the same home doesn’t mean every child will end up with the same attachment patterns. And, if you’re wondering how you had trauma in your childhood but didn’t turn avoidant like others did, this is why.
My Ex was a dismissive avoidant and her sister wasn’t, this was due to when my exes mother was pregnant with her her father had an affair which ment that the mother resented my ex as a child and not her sister, very sad really
2026-11-07 04:02:13
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Rosie's Kitchen :
that's me a anxious
2026-11-11 04:59:00
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user6317221743819 :
also gendered. my ex was the oldest. the "first pancake". he was praised when he did well. and he was a boy - so he was told to toughen up. he told me his mom was a narcissist. it sounded like his mom wanted a girl, a carbon copy of herself. his sister was inherently valuable to his mother and received emotional attunement.
2026-11-07 10:01:34
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Sarah Jane :
I did become avoidant after deeply painful adult relationships. And i’ve been on the other side of things too. 🙁
2026-11-07 13:52:46
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Erin Bohnert :
Gabor mate!
2026-11-10 22:48:44
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🌷𝓚𝔂𝓵𝓲𝓮🌷 :
I believe mine was also on the spectrum. Probably why his brother isn't a DA.
2026-11-07 20:34:24
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Steven Menard :
Yes becoming a wise leader is a good decision
2026-11-08 11:26:25
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