@thesahmblueprint: “Man works from sun to sun… a woman’s work is never done.” And somehow, decades later, that line still hits. 🤎 Because motherhood doesn’t really have an “off” switch. There’s always something to remember. Someone to feed. Laundry to fold. Appointments to schedule. Meals to plan. A bath to give. A mess to clean. A child who needs comfort. And a mental checklist running in the background that nobody else can see. Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom, working mom, or somewhere in between, so much of what mothers do happens quietly — without a paycheck, a promotion, or even recognition. And that’s why I’ll never call a woman “just a mom.” Because when everyone else’s workday ends, motherhood usually keeps going. This isn’t about saying dads don’t work hard or contribute. It’s about recognizing the invisible physical and mental labor that so many women carry every single day. Moms deserve support before they’re burnt out. Rest before they’re running on empty. And appreciation for the things nobody thinks about because Mom already handled them. 🌿 Moms, what’s one thing you do for your family every day that you feel like nobody notices? 👇🏼 I have a feeling these comments are going to show just how much mothers are carrying behind the scenes. 🤎 #MotherhoodUnfiltered #MentalLoad #SAHMLife #InvisibleLabor #TheSAHMBlueprint

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carterwallenn
CarterWallenn :
Yes because breaking concrete for 12 hours 90 hours a week is equal to making dinner and folding clothes🤯
2026-11-08 07:21:47
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user9927586238068
user9927586238068 :
They act like watching kids three hours out of the day after school is so hard
2026-11-10 14:47:51
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clay_townsend_1
clay_townsend_1 :
Why are we comparing? Like what is the point. Life is so stressful for everyone no matter what you do. Trying to fight over which one is harder won’t help one bit.
2026-11-10 19:42:15
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cybii7
Cybii7 :
yeah but that sun to sun makes the wife staying home possible
2026-11-08 11:43:11
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444..olivia
olivia :
im in enemy territory omg
2026-11-08 13:05:43
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julio.medrano98
Julio Medrano :
it’s the opposite
2026-11-10 17:56:59
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_l0wkey.411
jess_davis_1983 :
and?? I'll tell ya right now i would never wanna trade places with my husband men dont get the credit they deserve and yes not all men
2026-11-08 04:56:08
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selena.hernandez34
Selena hernandez :
My mother wakes up at four every day to make lunch and coffee for my dad before he goes to work, and stays up to wake up my nephew for school at six thirty and take him to school, then she comes back to take me to school, she then vacuums, mops, washes and dries clothes, goes to the store, washes the car, takes care of our four dogs, and starts dinner which she takes maybe hours to do just so we have a good dinner, she serves everybody including my dad, after that she eats and then cleans the kitchen, barely getting any time to herself before the days over, with my dad he wakes up at four everyday, he builds safes, which you could imagine is back breaking, and it really is, everyday he comes back exhausted, sometimes he doesn’t come back till seven and it’s rare for him to even get Saturday off leaving only a day of break for him, no other person who works at the warehouse where my dad works is there first before him nor are they the last, my dad is always the first and last to arrive and leave. So to me it’s not all true because it depends what men and women deal with everyday, it’s different for everybody, for example, if your father works in a office when your mother is back home picking you up and taking you to school and doing back breaking chores just so you could have a clean home to come back too then yes this video applies to you, if your dad does works back breaking jobs for more than 15 hours and your mother stays home to do not as many things than this video doesn’t apply to you.
2026-11-10 15:15:02
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lilpiss18
lilpiss18 :
U don’t think fathers do this too?
2026-11-08 00:30:09
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eliyah.xo
Eliyahkelis :
Based off these comments it’s still not understood… both roles are important but both roles need to be SEEN not just accepted
2026-11-09 15:28:55
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bigr1234.1
The dawg :
Both roles are equally important in both roles are equally hard in different aspects. The relationship is 50-50.
2026-11-08 09:44:32
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the_blanche_five
Blanchie :
This is why I don’t understand why girls get paid less when our work is never done
2026-11-07 16:21:47
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courtneydonnelly8
Courtney Donnelly :
And then they are idolized and given special moments. Father/daughter dances, walking daughters down the aisle. Standing beside their sons when getting married. Where’s the mom, watching it all
2026-11-09 15:18:16
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trevortoomes
TrevorToomes :
Working sun to sun means you never stop so this is so dumb
2026-11-08 15:19:26
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blkmambacapital
Black Mamba Capital :
Do you not understand how the system has turned Men Vs Women. Look at society. Men and Women need each other. Both are immensely valuable!
2026-11-08 05:10:32
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chicochumbum
Chumbum :
Ive been in both roles. Sole provider and stay at home dad. 1 job was physically exhausting with some mental helping out with the kids after work. The other job was mentally exhausting, but i got to set the schedule with plenty of down time in between. They were both work, but the stay at home dad was by far easier and more rewarding.
2026-11-08 13:52:14
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thecase.afterdark
TheCaseAfterDark :
This is a great speech
2026-11-07 01:19:32
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sumerwessendorf
Sumer Wessendorf :
Stop this is so sad though.. as pregnant mom to four already. Ugh
2026-11-08 00:36:42
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farhadsaidi7
Fsaidi :
😢
2026-11-10 13:35:20
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xelassirma
Jane doe :
He literally just asked me what’s for dinner after I’ve been fighting nausea all day. 🤦🏻‍♀️
2026-11-09 21:27:57
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jordancraig930
Jordan Steinberg :
Sun to sun to give YOU the luxury of staying home. Would you rather work 60+ hrs/week? Men would love to stay home and watch their sons and daughters grow, but we give 90% of that to mom.
2026-11-09 12:42:42
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usuariao15
usuariao1 :
I almost forget that hard is to clean up the kitchen and put to sleep the ones u love the most 😌
2026-11-09 12:17:13
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mark11240
BigMarky :
this is such bs! at some point kids get big enough to bath them selfs and dress them selfs and pick up after them selfs and can clean up and do dishes and do there home work it gets easier for mom as time goes but man work is never done!!!
2026-11-08 11:40:04
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sahmgirlboymom
Brooke🖤 :
Same roles just different jobs but still would choose this all over again with the man I’m with now!!!!
2026-11-09 20:19:27
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