@monicaumunna: Have we ever stopped to consider whether we’re creating an environment where our husbands actually WANT to? 🙃 We want men who take initiative, pursue us, and put in effort. But sometimes we’re so busy criticizing what they aren’t doing that we fail to recognize what they’re already trying to do… We expect them to meet needs we’ve never communicated and keep trying when their efforts are constantly met with criticism. 🤡 And then we interpret their lack of enthusiasm as a lack of love!! I’m not saying men shouldn’t take initiative or that wives should have to beg for love and consideration. But there’s a difference between a husband who doesn’t care and one who’s become discouraged because nothing he does ever seems good enough. You can’t constantly make a man feel like he’s failing you and then wonder why he’s stopped trying! Sometimes it’s not that he doesn’t want to. It’s that he’s convinced nothing he does will ever be enough!! 🔥🙏🏼‼️🫣🫶🏼

Fuckks Offsa :

protect her at all cost

I forgot :

A friend asked me to get her a Gatorade…so I did, lucky me I got the exact one she hated 👍

Renzel Washington :

Tell em sis

The Love Debate :

Go girl [Fire][Fire][Fire]

kinicka1155 :

everyone should just respect one another

Jason :

Unspoken expectations will always lead to undesired results

Senese :

Honey. That’s wisdom. Teach the women… they will actually win in relationships!! 🙏

Bibi Mileikowsky :

Exactly

ComfortZone :

She won’t see this, watch

Jr Gomez :

F marriage I rather be a mma fighter

Jeremy :

1000 percent

Michael Ciangi :

This

Andrew Jones :

my ex was a fearful avoidant... communicating her needs to me and me following through meant that my actions didn't count BECAUSE SHE TOLD ME 😅

Genevieve McDaniels :

Ew. Or he could take the same initiative and maintain the shared expectations that are on me. It’s not mind reading. It’s being an adult.

user6719947101124 :

but why would he just "want to"? like that's the bit that's sneakily trying to trick you. it's not that you do nice things for him so he does them for you. no,no, he just has to magically want what you want, with no cost to you, with no need for you to even be appreciative. it's nonsense, meant to manipulate men into being doormats with zero self worth

Isaïas Aurélien :

we love u ma'am. thank you🙏

brentwtaylor7 :

I have a better way. Even though what you’re suggesting is reasonable.

Masked Chameleon :

Correct.

Sikhulile :

Zaza :

Shots_with_Tj :

You went viral. Keep up the great work.

jaybird :

Thank you !!

Kidd :

Accurate on all points.

Josh :

She can have a podcast

Sigr :

That part