@immateriaa:

Nomalanga :

Mine attacked me for asking, i was called jealous for showing tht i need smething. By 17 i was getting bursary money n gifting them n i got praised 4 sacrificing my needs 4 thm, but when thy saw me receive things thy got jealous. My parents had mental health issues, bcz smehow thy believed I'm my dad's mother reincarnate, n the mom owed him. I was told, I-his mom stole his gift, intelligence n everything tht i was achieving was actually his. Now I'm burnt out I'm struggling to get up again. I don't want to hyt thm but it's painful to be aware of the trauma thy caused.

👁️👄👁️ :

how do you actually break the loop? You can have all the self-awareness, understand your patterns and where they stem from, yet still struggle to change them. Like knowing why you struggle to charge for your services, but still not being able to do it. how do you bridge the gap between awareness and action

Harveypizza :

Make more great videos

Eli :

You always appear and solve exactly what I've been suffering through thank you man

rto2518 :

Big in my case. I remember helping a neighbor with moving furniture and trying to refuse money but the neighbor insisted I get it. It was only a dollar or so but when I told my mom about it later she gave me a hard time and said I shouldn’t have accepted it.

Kirsty Skinner :

I believe this is also the same wound that keeps people performing more and more at work to the point where they burn out. This is such a huge topic. Great video as always 👏

metaboi :

"it's their first time having power" sent me to the next level, bro. great stuff

virginia :

Great video

arwaabdelaziz369 :

UnconditionalLOVE143 :

unhealed parents are the childs first bully.

marshmellyna :

The parent keeps being "good"- takes care od other sick people, people pleases, never says no and practically sacrifices herself, her health to a point of exhaustion - for a bread crumb of evaluation from the outside world... and then when you don't follow their path, their same way of living they judge you. Label YOU as bad. When infact it's an illusion.