@dsalnorcal: A Very Difficult Night. Caregiver Guilt. @Danielle Behar Salin🏎️ @5pm Show w/ Dan Salinger

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Saturday 07 November 2026 16:54:17 GMT
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cptnma
cptnma :
Have you considered hospice? I think you’ll get extra help amd support
2026-11-07 17:52:09
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huskynan17
Shazza :
All you have to do is pay someone to come in and help unless there’s a reason you don’t 🤷‍♀️
2026-11-07 17:29:29
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smurfette1972
smurfette72 :
now he see all his wife does for his daddy
2026-11-07 17:34:55
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christijones31
Christi :
Why can’t your siblings help at all!!
2026-11-07 17:41:49
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kninisss_
Kenia :
Nursing facilities offer “Respite Care” to give families a break for a few days or even weeks, you guys should really look into it, it’s such a huge help. 24/7 care. 🥹
2026-11-07 17:28:25
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208_idaho_
Idaho🤍 :
Very true Dan, it’s exhausting for sure! My mother now needs 24/7 care and she/nor I can afford to forkout rhe amount of money a month for the kind of care she needs. And, Medicare doesn’t help and she doesn’t qualify for Medicaid—so out of pocket private pay is 15-20k a month 😳
2026-11-08 11:18:39
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cynthia05299
Cynthia :
you are amazing Dan
2026-11-08 11:53:20
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lisa.titus1
lisa titus :
out of 5 other siblings there is not 1 that can help. I'm not understanding
2026-11-07 17:33:23
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thedogpound_64
DieselandUnoMora :
There comes a point when you have to recognize that you cannot do it all. Your parent deserves proper care, but you deserve a life, too. You deserve peace, time with your spouse, and the ability to enjoy your remaining years. You can love your parent with all your heart and still recognize that caring for them at home is breaking you. Choosing professional care isn’t necessarily abandonment. Sometimes it’s the most loving and responsible decision for everyone involved.
2026-11-07 18:42:17
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justshannon81
just Shannon.🇨🇦 :
you have to forgive your self it can’t be easy. Everybody loses control sometimes and says things that they can’t take back… Maybe next time you get emotional like that just remember he’s not here forever.[Twin hearts]
2026-11-08 11:27:28
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sonyaratliff
Sonya Marie :
Yep, I had those days too. We are human. Give yourself grace. Savior these moments. My mom passed 9/22/2026.
2026-11-08 11:49:35
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jazzyn70
Jasmine :
You’re human. Give yourself some grace.
2026-11-07 18:51:01
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carolbaghaloo
carolbaghaloo :
I totally understand Dan, I'm going through the same thing with my mom and I'm doing it solo as I'm an only child.
2026-11-08 11:44:39
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user9653081273278
Susan Haley :
Your only human, we all been through this, well quite a few of us, it’s hard at times
2026-11-07 17:02:39
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appleuser535263807
Tech :
You have a cape too. It’s there even if you can’t see it. 👍😁You Got This
2026-11-07 17:55:12
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ejrwivington
EJ Rwivington :
Sorry Dan. Look after yourself too 🙏🏽
2026-11-07 17:17:31
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blueskiez51
blueskiez51 :
Be kind to yourself, you are human
2026-11-07 17:38:43
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tracey.marsh6
Martha D :
You're only human Dan and you will have days that are worse than others..I think you and Danielle are doing great!! Keep up the great work
2026-11-07 18:02:40
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mazikeen301
Jannyk :
You are an amazing man,God bless you.Stay strong and take few mins to regroup.
2026-11-07 17:20:15
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notyournormalgrandma
Notyournormalgrandma❌🤙🏼 :
Stay strong it’s not easy been doing it solo for 6 years
2026-11-07 17:40:15
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dawn.yancey
Dawn Yancey :
As a caretaker, honestly it's hard to have to be happy cleaning up someone's b.m. You love them and do it but you don't have to like it
2026-11-07 20:19:41
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elva.gillis.elvve
Elva Gillis elvves :
Me To Aweful People
2026-11-08 08:33:38
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sonofcreator5
SONOFCREATOR :
im about to take in my dad , 76 vet with dementia any advice?
2026-11-07 17:26:56
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funnymaw1
funnymaw1 :
Don’t keep kicking yourself. Everyone snaps now and then. Caregiving takes it out of you. My Mom sundowned all week and kept trying to climb out of bed. And I snapped at her. She passed later on that day. I feel bad still. That was in April. But I know she was transitioning to death and was so confused. Maybe try to nap with him during the day when he does
2026-11-07 18:14:17
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roch3ll3hickman
rochellehickman :
You got this Dan!
2026-11-08 04:05:06
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