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Dani | SAHM :
but respect is also acknowledging your impact despite your intention. it doesn't mean anyone was right or wrong, just means you see the other person's hurt and use that to learn to communicate better and consider them more when making certain choices.
2026-11-08 12:19:43
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Bay :
True! However, the other partner can acknowledge that intent does not always balance out the impact.
2026-11-07 20:31:05
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Afua :
Seeking clarity is needed, especially in ambiguous situations. But there’s a distinction between clarifying intentions and excusing disrespect. If your partner, friend or family calls you an idiot, makes unsolicited comments about your body under the guise of preference, or repeatedly does things you’ve explicitly said you dislike, how much clarification do you really need? Sometimes a spade is simply a spade. You can give someone the benefit of the doubt without giving them unlimited opportunities to disrespect you.
2026-11-09 09:01:18
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SEVIN🥷🏾 :
okay but what if im very verbal on what hurts my feelings and they apologize and acknowledge , jus to do the exact same thing over and over again
2026-11-08 05:56:33
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Kyle RN 🇵🇭🇺🇸🇦🇪 :
Acknowledgement of one’s fault before explaining the misunderstood intention or problem. Fixes a lot of hidden resentment and anger. During the initial phase of the argument.
2026-11-09 15:14:20
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mrmcmurda :
yeah BUT... sometimes that's just an opportunity for them to switch up what they said because they know they f'd up
2026-11-08 13:44:54
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Peace 🕊️✌️ :
Until you meet a manipulator who lies for a living
2026-11-09 04:13:32
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karyzma870 :
you are with this one
2026-11-09 04:46:22
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Melissa (Sunnehdaze) :
This is how you allow someone to be heard and seen.
2026-11-09 05:14:01
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Mary Anit. :
lol.. it only holds when said partner is actually good at clarifying what they meant.
2026-11-08 15:38:36
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Mindy Anthony :
solid advice.
2026-11-08 17:24:57
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Roundabout832 :
Except for when he constantly says mean shit and you question it and every single time without fail “thats not what I meant” 🙄
2026-11-08 17:30:20
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metter :
Still, discuss intent vs. impact. It's just as important to know how they impacted you with the way they chose to respond just as much as it is for you to understand if their intent matches your perception. Respect goes both ways.
2026-11-08 06:23:16
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Jennifer :
thats basic human communication, if you cant do that your living in the lies of your own reality.
2026-11-08 00:57:28
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TerriMarie ✝️🧶0|||||||0 :
Yes! And not just your partner. Friends, kids, parents…. Too many assumptions, not enough direct communication 😢
2026-11-07 19:43:19
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A blk mother. :
Intent impact or two different things so yeah, we could definitely stop guessing your intent and just talk about the impact.
2026-11-08 06:09:00
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Krista_Grace :
While this is true, intent does not negate impact. Just because you didn’t intend to hurt someone, doesn’t mean their hurt is not valid.
2026-11-08 05:37:57
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waitforit :
Except he explains everything as an accident when its really a pattern i can now predict.
2026-11-07 20:42:37
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Billa wonder 💕 :
well…. that allow manipulation
2026-11-08 02:54:02
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✨💕 Expect Abundance 💕 ✨ :
Impact over intention. Respect!
2026-11-08 16:26:29
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Mrs.N1TR0 :
and respect is also acknowledging the impact it had even if it wasnt the intention and apologizing if it hurt their feelings or upset them. Both side to this matter and one side without the other side isnt respect its manipulation.
2026-11-08 19:01:35
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Constantin Valdor :
intent is irrelevant if your partner hits you on accident because they were trying to open a bag of chips you are still going to want them to apologize
2026-11-08 00:16:52
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juliet.gh :
and then comes the mf saying "think whatever you want"
2026-11-08 16:53:27
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Yeah,I know :
What if they lie ?
2026-11-08 00:30:25
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Mike Ahava :
Let’s be real we can be with along with someone to know what they meant
2026-11-08 05:17:49
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