there isn't a single lesbian bar in my entire country so yeah I think we do need more sapphic spaces lol
2026-11-08 10:08:09
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Distracted by Design :
I actually haven’t, because none exist near me. That’s the problem. We can fix the cattiness later, I just want to be able to access one. I’ll worry about feeling accepted there later.
2026-11-07 23:48:29
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ElTainotheartist :
Elder lesbian here and I stopped going cuz very hostile for no reason not welcoming of new ppl plus if you’re over 30 you’re considered geriatric
2026-11-07 23:41:17
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Rae Rae :
Mmm i only had that experience at predominately yt sapphic events. I now only go to very black and brown sapphic events and have a ball every time
2026-11-08 02:35:25
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Dee 🇵🇸 :
I agree to an extent. Blush n blu was like the only lesbian bar in Colorado before it closed because they kept doing poetry nights??? We do need more sapphic places especially for people like me who are butch. It sounds like the problem is more mean people not that we need less spaces 😭
2026-11-08 18:36:16
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elliebellie :
wait ive literally only had good experiences at lesbian bars
2026-11-08 02:10:59
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thats so raegan :
No actually and it will be marketed as a “community building event”
2026-11-08 18:30:32
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mercury :
i fear this is just where youre at 😭
2026-11-08 00:47:27
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Sarah Einy :
there's a lesbian collective in my city and we do literally all sorts of activies for basically all tastes and it's literally the best thing that's ever happened to me
2026-11-07 22:45:52
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B. :
Uh.. yeah we do? As a lesbian with no lesbian bar or events anywhere near me, I have no where to meet anyone besides the terrible dating apps that go nowhere
2026-11-08 02:11:29
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Immortal Demigoddess :
I feel like if we had more sapphic spaces then it'd fix the problem. like if there were more options you could go to a place that fits the vibe you want. like with regular bars you can join a space that fits your need, so to speak. if you wanna chill, eat, and have a few drinks, then go to a pub. if you want to dance, party, and get wasted, got to a club. then we don't all have to cram into a One-size-fits-all space. this comes off whiney like the answer is not get rid of the space because you didn't have fun, it's add more so everyone can.
2026-11-08 02:13:26
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user9137740721009 :
yes. yes we do. because most of us have not because of how FEW lesbian/sapphic spaces there ARE. if you can't appreciate it maybe don't go?
2026-11-08 03:34:18
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JustJo :
Well, I'm bi and it was made abundantly clear that I was NOT welcome there. Like it's always been for me. Sooooo... After x number of times you just decide to quit trying.
2026-11-08 13:51:58
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freedomforall42069 :
every Denver lesbian wants to be the coolest sapphic on tik tok instead of finding community. my partner and I don't go to any place labelled sapphic anymore.
2026-11-08 03:45:03
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Cass :
Ugh I had the same experience!!!!
2026-11-08 07:47:15
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MJ ✌🏽🖤 :
The way I KNEW you were talking about Denver is very telling 😒😒😂😂
2026-11-08 02:53:36
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HeyThatsMyUserNameThief 🩷🤍🧡 :
Went to a lesbian bar in LA. Walked in with my friend and literally no one spoke to us the whole night except for the bartender who only spoke to us once. The place was full of instagram types and their beautiful Instagram gay friends. It was also freezing cold because they had the front door open in the small space in the winter time. The bathroom was really incredible though.
2026-11-08 04:18:49
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Ally :
Point taken, but you don’t get to decide for those of us who don’t even have access to such a space. We deserve to have sapphic spaces, too, so… yes, we need more of them. This was not really a great take.
2026-11-08 02:18:42
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𝕰𝖒𝖇𝖊𝖗 :
No like the only other lesbians I’ve ever met have been so nasty to me 😭
2026-11-08 00:39:38
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𝒞ℯ𝓁𝒾𝓃ℯ :
I LOVE YOU PLEASE DONT GO BALD
2026-11-07 22:42:48
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Vic Lawrence :
THIRTY FIVE DOLLARS FOR A COVER CHARGE???
2026-11-08 02:21:41
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spooky femme :
i live in toronto girl there are no lesbian bars much less sapphic bars lol
2026-11-07 22:58:55
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Tai :
all positive experiences at
slammers (Columbus)
sapphic soiree (Cleveland event)
cubbyhole (NYC)
lipstick lounge (Nashville)
girlcrush (Nashville)
2026-11-08 10:01:49
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Jae :
$35 cover is wild, most sapphic parties I’ve been to in NYC is like $20
2026-11-08 02:42:06
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