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yourfavouriteleo0 :

i love being called difficult

NUN.YA BIZZ, PhD Loading :

Matriarchy is protective. Patriarchy is destructive, isolating and predatory.

Ophelia Valentine :

I think lots of men just settle for women they don’t even truly like. They would rather reap the benefits of a wife than to have an actual partner they love and care for

khypatia :

omg so true, esp when brothers are allowed to bully their sisters

Heather Lynn :

When a man doesn’t like seeing you rest, that’s a threat to your life!

Denise :

My dad lovedddd women and always stood up for women and girls and the vulnerable. It’s sooo obvious to me when men don’t like us. Its repulsive.

rurue :

The bar for men is in hell! I’ve been called difficult and ungrateful for not being impressed by basic treatment from men. I’ve had women talk down on me for leaving men for trying to gaslight me. And told I was doing too much.

Angelfish_O.O :

My mom babies her husband more than her own babies

LeePacesEyebrows :

"He will treat you badly if he likes you". We also prioritise being chosen over being valued.

Theo :

I've never read something as powerful as Audacityy To Upgrade by Stellaa

manicpixiescreamsquirrel :

I was raised by my grandma. she was an absolute menace to men.

rwelshnoel :

I was also raising in a matriarchy and around no men whatsoever. It’s confusing to me that a person would be with someone they hate.

Carol Thomas :

Men think we are beneath them

ابـــو مــــالك |1420 ه‍ـ :

For anybody looking for books about self worth and people pleasing, there’s “The Peace You Keepp Giving Away" by C Morgan.. It covers overthinking, guilt and starting to believe in yourself.

badgirldaniel :

Having a single mother is a blessing, I swear😮‍💨

I am Kache :

Now I get it, oh God I get it now

Finn :

All of my sisters are stuck with bad, disrespectful, dangerous men because my mother sadly passed that down to us. She was the same, now all of her kids have these problems. My brother grew up with my father and turned into that exact type of man. It's really sad to see.

Leannabella77 :

I have this in me. I see it in every relationship around me and there is always a voice in my head shouting why, why are you just accepting this.

miau :

“I am not good for a man’s ego.”

Blessed 🤍 :

They normalise this in movies a lot

Emmmz :

My brother/dad were my first abusers

SuperhawtCoco :

Or just overall grew up around people who didn’t like you.

❤️ :

I’m so selfish and everyone hates me for it. I will never live my life for a man.

nini 🪽 :

men get away with so much and some people just excuse it by saying it's in their "nature"...

Dee 💋🤎🍫 :

My dad is so rude, entitled and disrespectful at times unprovoked that I definitely think it got me used to being spoken to negatively by men. I tend to attract verbally disrespectful men. I’m trying to unlearn that.

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