the thing people fail to realize, is that it is SO insanely personal. That person KNEW you. They KNEW what would hurt you, they KNEW what would make you feel guilty of your actions, make you question your own reality. They KNOW so many close and personal details about you, they know your body they’ve seen the sides of you you show NO ONE. It’s 100% personal and it’s so insanely painful and fucked up. At the end of the day someone who TRULY and I mean TRULY LOVES YOU..would never make such selfish choices when it came to you being in the picture. I don’t blame anyone ever for reacting a certain way after a betrayal. It genuinely fucks you up mentally, spiritually and even physically. and makes you question so much. It makes you rethink it over and over, it makes you wonder if there was anything you could’ve done to make that person change, but I think people need to realize at the end of the day they were too selfish and immature to even think about how you’d feel.
2026-11-08 08:27:17
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🦋EccentriciTAY🦋 :
And I hate when people say you dodged a bullet because the bullet has already hit me don’t you see me bleeding out !!
2026-11-08 13:11:04
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𓆩♡𓆪 :
It hurts more when you gave them a chance to be honest. Like you KNEW and asked them and they looked you in the eyes and STILL lied.
2026-11-08 23:58:42
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Carmencita✨🦋🌹🤍 :
It feels like a part of your innocence was taken from you and you can never go back to who you were before
2026-11-08 11:20:37
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J :
Now I hold resentment towards myself for not trusting my gut
2026-11-10 13:09:33
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chip :
it’s humiliating
2026-11-08 06:47:35
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Jonathan :
It’s so lonely man. I hate this feeling of constant sadness. Like I still feel the weight on my chest. The same weight from the day I found out.
2026-11-08 03:41:59
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Janelle🪷 :
No literally like I’m not mad or sad anymore fr I’m just in shock & disbelief cus did I even know them fr???
2026-11-08 03:00:52
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gxddessbailey :
I’ll legit never be the same
2026-11-08 05:26:27
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user :
the humiliation is so isolating, the memories never really leave and they keep trying to hurt me as a bullet that keeps on coming. the pain is a prison. and it drives me crazy that i feel like nobody understands how serious it was that someone betrayed me that badly.
2026-11-09 06:03:12
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☆⌒(ゝ。∂) :
i don't kno what to do
2026-11-10 11:09:54
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aubrey :
It’s been 9 months and I just cannot fully process it. I can’t wrap my head around any of it. I just find myself asking why.
2026-11-09 07:14:11
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CC :
This. I can’t even grieve the relationship because none of it was real. What’s there to grieve besides a fake reality?
2026-11-08 07:44:53
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Robert Kerns :
I was like that. People are always going around telling you to just “get over it” and “just think positively” in order to actually heal, and that will somehow fix all our problems but thats just not true. A lot of people don’t actually know how to heal or what that even means really. According to psychology it all comes from the core beliefs that you formed as a child that to keep yourself safe that haunt you in your adult life. So you have to learn to regulate your nervous system. unlearning your old, toxic belief system and re-learning a new, healthy belief system. re-parenting yourself. building a healthy relationship with yourself by treating yourself like a good friend or a good parent would do. In other words…sitting with yourself and choosing your piece over anyone else's. Only you have the power to change your life and your belief system. Doomscrolling and wishing that time will fix everything won’t do it. If you want to learn all this right now and to heal properly, I strongly suggest reading a book called Healing lsn't Pretty (M. Hartson) asap. One of the best transformative guides available right now . i LOVE this book it def saved me !!
2026-11-09 07:10:44
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Cece :
I’m still so angry and hurt. It’s been years .
2026-11-10 07:25:17
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syd˚˖𓍢ִ໋❀ :
Still betrayed after 4yrs, marriage and a daughter…
2026-11-08 20:31:17
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mic🇩🇪 :
I genuinely questioned everything we ever did, he ever said, the life I had planned. It’s been 6 months since the betrayal and yes I’m happy but my brains wiring is not the same. I know I’m not the same but all I can do is move forward
2026-11-08 19:39:54
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🤍 :
That and realizing you should have trusted you gut instinct from the beginning…
2026-11-09 02:14:33
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Sandypls :
And it’s so hard to get out of that hole but once you do, there’s never going to be a way I can go back.
2026-11-08 02:59:22
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Haylee :
I would’ve never done it to them.
2026-11-08 15:47:13
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𝒜🪻 :
Like did he even love me
2026-11-09 16:46:05
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ruby 🍓 :
it hurts more when they’re out of your life and you realize how much you changed and betrayed yourself to keep them and now you’re left alone with a version of yourself you don’t even recognize
2026-11-09 02:52:38
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karaline 🇻🇦 :
It hurts so badly because we ourselves would never do that to someone, so we can’t comprehend WHY they do it to us.
2026-11-09 02:23:04
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Top Ao3 Contributor :
It genuinely makes you go insane, and you feel insane for going insane. It’s so humiliating, especially knowing that they’ve known what’s hurt you and still manages to blow past that completely. It’s like you can feel the scar forming on your brain
2026-11-09 03:48:42
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