salma 🫶🏼
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Sunday 08 November 2026 04:11:19 GMT
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Iqqy :
Girl I feel you, caught my mom and aunt talking about me expiring...im just 27. Im doing real well in school, making a name for myself. Im just never going to talk to these people again. Thats the only thing relatives talk about
2026-11-08 12:57:10
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artistcore99 :
I agreed to get married at 23 to make my parents happy, divorced by 25. Don’t do it, ladies, TAKE IT SLOW AND FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE!
2026-11-08 14:41:09
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… :
how old are you u look sooo young :(
2026-11-10 20:49:56
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mehak :
I moved out, I got divorced at 25 im 30 now and it didn’t get better until I left. Never settle ever !! It won’t get better with them.
2026-11-10 01:41:07
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Aliza ♡ :
I had to crash out on my entire family to get them to stop harassing me. Always asking why I’m not married or saying my standards are unrealistic more than speaking about my accomplishments. Needless to say, they don’t ask anymore. Crash out and remember, don’t let people whose lives you don’t want to live make you feel less than 🩵
2026-11-10 01:23:09
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taaasmia :
girllll if you’re an independent and don’t rely on them for anything, move away (I moved away just 3 hours) and the topic vanished. I don’t owe them anything.
2026-11-08 18:28:26
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fadumo :
Moving away saved my sanity 🫶🏾
2026-11-08 13:30:40
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hiba（╹◡╹）♡ :
wait help you didn’t even start what you were saying and when u shed a tear i literally started crying 😭 i felt that
2026-11-09 01:30:51
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ornisha ꕤ｡˚⋆♡ :
Silent REPOST ❤️🩹
2026-11-10 03:17:40
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zafrin nila :
been going through this for four years so i feel you girl. do what makes you happy because no one will truly care about your well being but you💞
2026-11-10 17:56:38
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Israa Adam :
The same thing in the African/middle eastern culture.
2026-11-08 13:25:24
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Faria 🌺 :
Girl I feel you, it’s killing my whimsyyy. Every dawat, and pretty much every interaction ends in “Why are you not married yet?” I hate that our value as women is only limited to whether we have a man, regardless of everything else we’ve accomplished.
2026-11-09 05:31:08
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Ayesha Ali :
“i cant pull someone out my ass” girl yes i be sayin the same thing its sickening here
2026-11-09 07:09:29
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Rohome10 :
Me at 29 single🫨
2026-11-09 16:42:21
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HappySpace :
You will be miserable if you do it for THEM take your time and pray to God about let it be in God's time not theirs. Regret is something that is difficult to shake off . respect them but put YOU first .
2026-11-08 23:09:52
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user283649161976 :
It definitely is a struggle, having our worth being defined by marriage as if we are financial burdens. I’ve been told both of my parents i AM never and NOT going to get married. My mom can keep harassing me about it too, but i am working on creating my own standards and a life that i want that a POS man wouldn’t have to give. Learn to take it one ear and out the other, because marriage for them was almost a foundation for protection/necessity over focusing on their emotions. Not many of them had the choices and opportunities that we do now. I know how you feel, nothing will be enough for desi immigrant parents because their upbringing was much more different than ours were. I hope it gets easier for you girl. Lashing out isn’t the key, use that energy to create more for yourself and creating the strength to just say no. Your hardwork will show for itself.
2026-11-08 11:56:12
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m :
I thought u were Dominican
2026-11-08 11:46:34
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farjana :
Girl i feel you 100%, i’ve been hearing this since I was 18 and Im 21 and it’s a constant conversation my mom brings up yet she always gets mad whenever I’m mad hearing this so she loves to say Ami tomar ma, Ami bolte hobe🫤
2026-11-08 15:40:17
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m.anayyyyy :
It’s a trap, once you pass 25 you see everything for what it is and can make right decisions for yourself. 🫠
2026-11-09 05:22:41
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𝔰𝔞𝔫𝔡𝔯𝔞 🖤🎀 :
As a Latina same 😭 I’m a failure in so many aspects according to them. They tried that with my little sister (17) and thats where I drew the line. Cut off. Went against the norms and culture.
2026-11-08 20:59:48
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Cozylittleglow :
I think moving away and creating boundaries help. It gives you a sense of power and autonomy to make decisions without the guilt or their influence. When you’re home it’s extremely difficult mentaly. You’re essentially devalues to marriage and having children. After the marriage the will pressure with kids, with the next thing. It never ends. May 2027 be your year of gaining your power and freedom and all the best life has for you.
2026-11-08 17:49:27
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HappySpace :
Mine is only marriage but I'm seen as useless because I'm still not done with college. I took a gap year and I'm back in school, but the tension between me and my dad would make a fly pass out . I can't wait to get my money up and leaveeeee
2026-11-08 23:11:40
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. :
Girl same I can’t take it anymore
2026-11-09 13:36:26
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Rassida. D :
I’m so sorry love at least your brows are stunning ❤️
2026-11-09 11:52:03
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nnsharms :
I love your name
2026-11-08 16:30:28
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