@lil_tachy: And now I’m done talking about this situation. I don’t think that it was fair to me for Alyssa to use my content without asking me, and it bothers me that she didn’t police the comment sections better. But that doesn’t mean I wasn’t at fault here as well. I should have reached out to her instead of talking about it on a livestream and opening her up to getting hate. #xyzbca #tiktoklive #crazyexfromhell #series #quinoa
Alyssa is legally right. Kirsten is morally right.
2026-11-08 10:53:48
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JDGAF :
Consent to make the videos should've been asked, it's a just completely wrong ethically. Immediately when I saw Alyssa's first post I was shook because no way you would want someone else covering your life and trauma.
2026-11-08 10:50:03
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Holly :
building a platform retelling other people's trauma is tacky.
2026-11-08 14:52:10
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Mo (Rav) :
Her blocking you but keeping YOUR story on her page screams taking advantage of someone else’s trauma for views. She is the problem.
2026-11-08 19:36:50
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RosalinaFeta🧚🏻♀️ :
There are people that excuse Quinoas behavior?
2026-11-08 11:30:14
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erica (the suckup) 🇨🇦 :
I need to fight people for you omg
2026-11-08 05:57:11
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gumi 🐀 :
i kept seeing “oh why so many parts” like it’s easy to quickly sum up years of someone’s life
2026-11-08 09:31:39
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Hannah :
Her not asking, and then not policing comments really makes it seem like she cared a lot more about views than how you might feel about this. which is super uncool
2026-11-08 10:04:41
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Hadrian :
If she doesn’t have time to moderate her comment section she has no business turning abuse into entertainment. She has no concern for the ethics of what she’s doing.
2026-11-08 12:39:40
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🕷️☢️🔻🇵🇸 :
there's also the option of disabling comments if she's too busy.
2026-11-08 10:57:28
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Jagoda🇵🇱🧷 :
her being like "it's not my job to protect her feelings" is probably what pissed me off the most
2026-11-08 15:25:57
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Steph :
consent can be revoked at any time, the comment may have been true at the time but you absolutely have the right to change your mind. im sorry your going through this, ive appreciated you sharing your story
2026-11-08 07:14:27
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anna :
girl you didn’t do anything wrong, she should’ve asked for your permission
2026-11-08 10:05:59
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rach ☆卌 :
You could explain it up a wall, and some people are unfortunately just dense - you explained it just fine 😭
2026-11-08 06:26:04
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Elijah Graves :
sweets you did nothing wrong you didn't talk bad about her truly. she wants money for her "working overtime" on this you have no reason to apologize she needs to pay attention to how the comments can affect the people she's covering
2026-11-09 20:29:48
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Kaity Baker :
Girl you’re in the right. It is your life and she morally had no right to go and use it for views.
2026-11-10 13:52:22
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Christinam862 :
Sounds like she found out how you respond to toxic behavior and is trying to take advantage of that. Girl, be a bitch! She's just another abuser testing your boundries. If she had respect for you from the jump, she wouldn't have tried to capitalize on your trauma.
2026-11-09 15:24:44
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cynful peace :
Resist the need to be understood. Know your truth. And stand in your truth. Forgive yourself. Forgive her. Move on.
2026-11-09 21:37:45
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florna//fauna :
Some people are just going to be committed to misunderstanding you
2026-11-08 06:37:18
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Trix :
At this point, Alyssa’s failure to moderate her comments has become a safety issue. Multiple people under her latest video are doxxing Quinoa, your friends, and you. I’ve been reporting the comments, and it looks like others have been tagging you to warn you. This has clearly escalated, and Alyssa has a responsibility to address people sharing personal information on her platform.
2026-11-08 15:36:04
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ixcantxevenx :
She feels entitled to financial compensation for using YOUR story 🤢🤢
2026-11-09 11:58:14
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˜°•✿•°˜𐌁𐌵𐌍𐌍𐌉˜°•✿•°˜ :
You really can’t catch a breakkkk
2026-11-08 05:50:54
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✩♬₊˚.MeiMeiᵇᵉ.˚₊♬✩ :
the victim blaming in her comments disgusted me so bad omg how are they saying you're just as bad as him hello???
2026-11-08 14:12:32
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Iwan Riley :
I’m sorry but the hate comments are about YOU!? Alyssa can just log off and ignore them because they’re not about her deep and personal experiences whereas you have to experience it all over again. She does have a responsibility to filter and block the comments to respect your wishes and boundaries!!
2026-11-08 14:47:48
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💋 :
nah u have a right to be mad cuz why is she liking comments on her last vid that are lokwy nasty but she doesn’t have time to look thru and delete harmful comments towards you?? make that make sense
2026-11-08 08:42:07
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