@user642981362: he isn't gone but he isn't here either... #dadanddaughter #absentfather #relatable #sad

dani👻 :

He was not only able but also willing for kids that weren‘t even his…..

👾 :

Living his life and drinking over being present for his daughter.

not jenna :

seeing all the girls with their dads breaks something inside me every single time

Katriina :

dont remind me. he himself proved to me he is willing and able for his youngest daughter but not willing and most definitely able for his oldest daughter

villainslover 🕷️ :

he did not give a shiiiiit

w :

meanwhile my mom was willing but not able

Caspian🐾 :

It’s worse because when I look at him I can see the love in his eyes, and when he talks about me and my twin I can feel the pride, but we’re still not enough. Why doesn’t he want me man.

Nyah Janae⁷ :

And I always thought he was willing but not able but one day something clicked to where I was like he could have been there and he could have been the dad that I wanted….

Lucy 💕 :

He’s a great dad when im at his, but when im not he doesn’t talk to me, unless its my birthday or a holiday.

ⒶnnⒶ ✪ ⧗ ꘩ ⎊ ⩔ ᗢ ⎈ :

Oh im so on the wrong side of TikTok

NEL🌸 :

That actually made me cried

mylène 🖤/•᷅•᷄\੭ :

I can‘t even imagine him in the position as a father.

🐥🦆🐥🦆 :

Ain’t there for me but he’s there for all his other kids, I still speak to him but only because he sends me money and shit

soph🍒🐆🪭🎱 :

He passed before he was ever willing but I will never know if he was ever going to be willing to give up his addiction for our relationship?

ྀིྀི :

But he’s willing and able for his other family.

ᗢ 𝒜𝒹ℯ𝓃. ᗢ :

it was his choice to leave, he will never love me and I am okay with that

✪ emy 🕸️ :

even tho he was never there for me I still wonder what it feels like to feel the love of a caring father

🌸 Nikki 🌸 :

Watching him spend time with my little brother like I didn’t beg him for 15 years to be my dad

D♡ :

Ѕαgє • ℓυ¢ισ'ѕ νєяѕισи 🎸 :

Literally made me question everything over the past seventeen years when he told me he never loved me 💩 it’s been over three years since I cut contact

psych alchemist :

Personally, he’s willing but not able

alnii_ether :

Able for the youngest but I was never worth for him to change

Müriel :

he's neither

georgie🌸 :

After having my own baby, I can’t wrap my mind around how he could just leave being he even knew me. Yet I can’t even imagine his as a dad

Joelina :

when I was 12 I gave my dad a year to go to rehab for substance abuse. he didnt do it, so I broke contact...my brother stayed in contact a year longer, in which also nothing changed I am now turning 22 in 16 days.. 2024-2025 i went to a job program and next to it was rehab therapy and a bus/train station... I saw him come out of the rehab therapy everyday when sitting at the bus station. 9 years later. So he was able... just not willing... an ultimatum from your 12 year old daughter isnt enough but somehow nine years after losing contact its possible?