@jo7iah: #FYP #Relationship #Empathy #Accountability #Responsibility

Bree :

Me Bree or the other Bree 👀✨ lol

amber akilla :

when accountability is interpreted as abandonment 😀

RobinExtraOrdinary :

“If you don’t understand why you have all these emotional needs, then somebody treating you as capable is going to feel like neglect.”

📸 @co_skigirl :

friendships like this are so exhausting 😮‍💨

The Beauty Of Becoming :

They see people as an extension of their needs….wheeeeewwweeeee 🙌🏾

onsometrash :

Spot on!

Reeshia’s Realm :

Can you please add captions to your videos?

Lenée :

This is chillingly accurate. I’m astounded.

lina___gem :

empathy is displayed when you’re not getting what you want 😭🔥

KAYDIOLOGY :

so someone saying that your sibling is already dead and there's nothing that can be done about it is not a lack of empathy?

Jasmine Gandara :

This really highlights the effects of parentification too. We say we’re empathetic when it reality it has only been accommodating the emotional needs of another person. And while we may indeed be empathetic by nature, this dynamic does not reflect that.

Xy :

can this video be teleported to my emotionally immature underfunctioning learned helplessness 11 yrs older than me ex

Caressdepress :

Ohhhhh this has definitely been me…thanks for this , time to self reflect . Uncomfortable truth but I understand something about myself I didn’t before

dreamerguurl :

Currently struggling with this as I’m getting the ick from a friend who is self centered and calls me robotic when really I’m treating her like a capable adult… 😩

orquidea.estrella :

You’re so smart & im eating it up. Like my mind is blown 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Pain/Pleasure :

Thiiiiissss💯

Arii Berry :

thisssss

Bree :

“Infantile lens” THIS

Bree :

I like the way your mind works.

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Meg :

Shewee. This is why I had to file for divorce. It was so sickening.

The Blessing Report :

Where’s the video?

Bree :

🪽bre :

“someone treating you as capable is going to feel like neglect” explains so much of why some people feel “abandoned” or insecure in relationships. it’s like you get punished for viewing them as an intellectual or emotional equal.

Tera Eliot ✨ :

I will scream this from the rooftops. Everyone needs to take non-violent communication courses. People can’t have empathy for others when they 1. Don’t have empathy for themselves and 2. Were never taught empathy. Western society lacks empathy. Deeply traumatized people lack empathy. This is not because the majority of these people are selfish or don’t want to have empathy, they truly don’t know how to. It saved my life from someone who grew up with two narc parents and was never taught