I was 12 and had no real family,no siblings and no friends. Why wouldnt I talk to someone who gave me attention and kindness?
2026-11-08 12:42:44
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A'zra :
she was 23 and I was 17
was the first person to ever check on me daily
2026-11-08 15:44:34
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💐✨𝕊𝕚𝕝𝕛𝕒✨💐 :
If the minor lied aboht their age and lead the adult on its 110% their fault
2026-11-10 12:08:14
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☆Billie joe funko pop☆ :
im 17 and he's 26. he has done nothing but be extremely kind to me. we are both artist and he told me that he looks up to me as a great artist that he knows. we were talking last night cause i was dealing with losing my grandma the same day and he called me the younger cousin he never had. I dont think he's dangerous, i think I got extremely lucky i found a safe adult. cause that ain't common online. I only think so cause he originally blocked me for a bit cause he didn't want my mom thinking he was a monster and label him as the thing he hates most after the trauma he went thru.
while I personally think he's a safe person, I want to know an outsiders thoughts, cause I can easily over think things and need a second opinion on this.
2026-11-08 21:19:04
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Idk.user :
But It is my fault, I knew it was wrong and weird but I still did it
2026-11-10 09:00:51
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femboi :
now after this I realized many people were trying to groom me.
2026-11-11 03:50:01
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🇮🇳ProgressivePatriot 🇦🇺⚖️ :
Yes but there may have been exploitation of vulnerability and your brain may still be developing. We can acknowledge a decision wasn’t the best, but we can also avoid blaming the victim.
2026-11-10 12:12:39
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✰𝓜𝓻 𝓟𝓾𝔃𝔃𝓵𝓮𝓼✰ :
I got groomed by someone ONE YEAR OLDER THAN ME. I was 8-9 and he was 9-10. ITS WILD. I left for good tho.
2026-11-08 13:58:35
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🐍 :
A lot of the cases where they only barred the victim, they are usually protecting their own kind ( predators)
2026-11-09 18:24:32
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Jule ✂✂✂✂✂🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘 :
I was 12 and he's 39
2026-11-08 23:23:58
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corvin :
My ex begged me to send her I send now the whole school knows and the girls blame me
2026-11-10 15:40:02
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Boost Bro 99 :
wich is why it needs to be talked abt in school
2026-11-10 12:58:07
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🪽 :
i was a victim of it
2026-11-08 12:45:54
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Commander Craven ⦻🍄🐾(Bucky) :
People are quick to question why I wasnt the mature one when my younger friend took advantage of my trust
2026-11-08 12:31:22
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⑅ 𝒜 ♡’s вєуση∂ !! :
I was 13 he was 37
2026-11-09 04:03:59
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Oliwia_Da_Goat😎|BREAK EVEN :
A representation of this is Oliver from buddy and he's the most hated character.
2026-11-08 12:46:44
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Aleks 🪽 :
I was 13 and he was almost 17 but like I don’t feel that shocked or traumatized about that but I’m just sad I don’t have an older’s attention and love and I don’t even know if you can considere this grooming while we were both minor
2026-11-08 12:33:10
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Jason,, (Santa’s elf🎄) :
Victim blaming is very common. Especially when the victim isn’t the perfect victim (for example Child SA) because in terms of grooming they were manipulated into doing things. By the eyes of this group of people the victim isn’t perfect so they think they have the right to blame and insult the child.
2026-11-08 12:30:58
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☆~Lilbee~☆ :
People dont realise that a lonely child isnt going to be careful when they finally think they found a safe space or a a friend
2026-11-08 12:33:38
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🦋arper :
I was 9 and he was 21
2026-11-08 21:53:02
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~ᗷᗴᖇYᒪ~ 🍓🐾 :
why did you say him and not them?
2026-11-08 21:28:20
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۫ ִ ⚞𓈒𝐉ꫀׁׅܻrly ♡ 𝓢iam🏳️⚧️ :
The same question people asked me was something you said on the video. After being r*ped and getting an abortion on the age of 8/9 (i dont remember, trauma was blocked by coping mechanism), i was groomed by alot of people including the perpetrator who r*ped me, my video where i was r*ped was made into a cs*m. The thing is, i wasnt aware, the grooming tactic was actually good, that i started to send them pictures just to feel something i never have.
2026-11-08 23:46:12
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your-girl-gabi :
He made feel more safe then my own family
2026-11-09 03:02:22
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🎀♔𝓐𝓽𝓸𝓶𝓲𝓬 𝓐𝓷𝓷𝓪♔🎀 :
I’m so exhausted and tired of getting blamed
2026-11-08 19:15:36
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Morax :
Piping hot take that might get me hate, but if You lie to someone about your age even tho your younger than what you said, and they hit on you or try to start any romance or something like that, its they're fault. of course unless there's a reason for that, idk how ot why but if that somehow happens you got yourself into that. *also before a dummass tgat is too lazy to read, I'm not protecting groomers or hating victims I'm just talking about this specific scene* (I thought this was common sense but I guess not)
2026-11-08 13:32:46
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