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Nadia W. | Publicist :
When I’m on dates with white men or nonblack men, the service we get is unmatched. The chefs comes out, we get 3-4 waiters, they check on us every 8 minutes, etc. When I’m with my black men we don’t get that same treatment. 😩
2026-11-08 20:57:57
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Sweetiedelmar :
What’s so funny about this is while everyone else is holding the white man on a pedal stool and vicariously kissing his ass he walk on eggshells around that very black woman.
2026-11-08 20:14:47
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Yeahhh ur slow lmao 🫣 :
Small thing but i have walked into stores and been ignored, i go with my white male partner and they wait on me hand and foot......its very interesting. Not pleasant at all because i know its no respect to me at all but simply not wanting to disrespect HIM.
2026-11-09 05:52:27
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nay 👾 ana :
married to a wm and yeah i don’t get that treatment. maybe i picked the wrong type?
2026-11-09 00:28:23
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TrapMushroom🍄 :
Saying kids are acting ghetto for acting like kids is crazy. Yes they could be trained but some takes longer than others. Nothing that you described the kid doing is ghetto.
2026-11-09 06:06:59
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Lord_Bullingdon's_Gun :
The same 4 topics in a perpetual loop
2026-11-08 23:59:28
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Faith 🦋 :
Very ridiculous you should treat people well no matter what I realized my ex landlord started treating me way better when he saw me with a white woman friend.Its like day and night
2026-11-09 07:00:25
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sam :
as a bw married to a wm 💯💯💯💯 you are correct
2026-11-08 21:23:03
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WriterLady565 :
I agree, but it also seems like she lacks social awareness as well. What you're saying is true though. I don't know how to describe it, but I've seen my white husband absorb the anti-blackness that would normally be directed my way. It's unfair and shows how mesmerized non black minorities glorify whiteness.
2026-11-08 19:39:25
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User92392855 :
They won’t outwardly punish us as much but we get way more passive aggressive treatment and covert racism. I don’t think it makes it better or worth it. People just pretend to not be bothered by it but it will always show.
2026-11-08 19:22:05
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AC76❌ :
As a black woman married to a white man this is true.
2026-11-09 03:54:29
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theisabeauu :
Especially if you’re in a European country with a European man from said country 🤣🤣
2026-11-08 17:58:13
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eboneyhenry :
Yeah I agree with this because although I haven’t done this I’m aware when my husband and I walk in a room together it’s very different the kids and I call it our yt privilege
2026-11-09 05:50:45
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thecrownedwoman :
I used to work in the hospitality industry and yes even the wait staff treat the bw better when she’s with a wm. That coupling is also oftentimes a higher hierarchy than the bm/ww.
2026-11-09 01:42:27
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Dom :
Yes since I’ve been with my man, Alot of people kiss my ass(as they should) because how he protect me and don’t play about me is very loud
2026-11-09 03:03:12
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Hillary Francois :
As someone who dated a white man. This is true
2026-11-08 18:44:55
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AliB :
It’s sad ,but it’s true, the world we live in gotta pay to play.
2026-11-08 18:21:36
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Faith 🦋 :
in my dating days even when I go out with a black man people are a little kinder than being by myself too
2026-11-09 07:05:19
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PilatesPrinxess :
You make a valid point.
2026-11-08 18:14:36
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Sunnymod :
and I use it to my benefit
2026-11-09 06:31:31
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Alex :
I noticed this been with my man for years I go into the stores with him people are so nice and polite I go by myself and I’m instantly stereotyped and mistreated. When I get him to help me they instantly switch up once they realize I’m with him they’re sweet and apologetic for the misunderstanding it’s so sad
2026-11-09 03:58:09
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UNFZD :
Good way to put it 🙏
2026-11-09 04:00:49
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✨Michelle Unfiltered ✨ :
This is facts‼️
2026-11-09 04:58:15
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WhoAskedAshly? :
I have a mixed kid and a black kid. You can even see the difference in how people love my kids.
2026-11-09 01:30:21
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Vee 💅🏾 :
Yes it’s very hard to go back after dating white men the preferential treatment you get from society is unmatched. Still want a black king though for my soul.
2026-11-09 03:48:56
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