It spills into adulthood too because I forget to buy myself things like bras, shoes, underwear and will wear stuff longer than I probably should be.
2026-11-08 21:50:17
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Kaitlin :
My mom didn’t even teach me about my period
2026-11-08 22:16:36
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🧚🏽♀️ :
bras, shaving, my period, learning how to shop, wearing jewelry, feeling pretty??? … the list could go onnnn and on. my mom never taught me how to be a women and i’m 19. she is & probably always will be my biggest heartbreak
2026-11-08 23:42:15
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Karen stacy :
My mom told me when my period came on that it was because I needed to pray for a husband now. Every day
2026-11-10 09:29:26
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rayban043 :
Looking back at things with an adult perspective is so difficult. My mom made me feel so unbelievably guilty for having basic needs that I’d steal underwear and pads thinking we didn’t have money…. Now as an adult I know my mom was getting $1000+ in child support monthly. There was no reason I should have been stealing things just to cover my basic needs.
2026-11-08 17:29:50
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Cort :
I had one bra. My step mom decided that was good enough. Wasn’t until I was 25 that I realized that wasn’t normal. Now I have tons.
2026-11-08 23:39:58
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TheRealShalissaMcCray :
I don’t understand why they were so against bras , n having us walk around w nips poking thru our shirts was more acceptable 😒
2026-11-09 01:05:04
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m.420240 :
Two bras- one white, one nude. As minimal padding as possible. Everything else was sports bras 🥲 I could ALWAYS see my nips through everything tight so I’d hide in hoodies.
2026-11-08 19:19:38
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heartbreakinghustle :
A lot of neglected kids are called fast because they were the fastest to take advantage of smh when in reality they’re just starving for attention and protection 😩
2026-11-08 21:53:30
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Meg | Lifestyle ✨ :
My mother would buy me random bras in random sizes. Actually everything was random sizes. I didn’t get fitted until I was over 18.
2026-11-10 02:11:12
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citrinenote :
This happened to me also feminine hygiene it’s horrific
2026-11-10 12:15:26
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.☆çãłįčö☆. :
I haven’t had a proper fitting bra since I was 16. I grew out of it too fast and hadn’t bought a new one since now. I’m 24. I went most of my life with cheap bras that didn’t fit right. I had to go get a fitting at my big age and didn’t realise how uncomfortable I’ve been every day
2026-11-10 06:09:01
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𝘬𝘢𝘯𝘢𝘦 ౨ৎ :
it’s so sad bc having an ill fitting bra can literally cause health issues for some girls :(
2026-11-10 05:03:21
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Heal-thy Oracle :
looking the way they allowed us to walk around attracts the people who want to take advantage of your situation. then that attention doesn't make sense. it's easy to assume it's because you're not worth more. the healing needs to be this deep.
2026-11-08 19:31:30
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Ева Мартынова :
I’ve BEEN WAITING FOR SOMEONE TOT ALM ABOUT THIS OMG ILL FITTED BRAS, SHOES, CLOTHES OMG
2026-11-10 04:44:43
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Oo :
My mom never even bought me bras when I was growing up. I felt so embarrassed.
2026-11-09 01:22:57
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Do you like 🧀CHEESE🧀??? :
yep... my mom's friend who i had never met pointed out to ny mom that I needed a bra. I was mortified and my mom's response was that no, I didnt need one. I literally ended up stealing one from a friend bc I was desperate and embarrassed. so many of our mothers failed us
2026-11-10 01:49:04
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💮usermct💮 :
Same with panties. She had a drawer full of beautiful bras and endless underwear, including new packets, and lots of paired socks in new condition. I was 14 and was wearing age 9 panties, and had an empty underwear drawer🥰
2026-11-09 20:21:55
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🌛Lulu🌜 :
My mom had to be told by a church elder that it was time to get me a bra, this elder was an old ahh man btw smh
2026-11-08 19:53:15
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3litklblubirds :
i even buy in excess because i never had
2026-11-08 22:28:57
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🍉Wren🔻 :
I wasn't allowed to have padding in my bras because "they don't need to look bigger"
2026-11-08 20:29:39
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f.t.duck :
And now I find myself wearing everything for about 6 more months after it needs to be thrown away and when I walk into a store I have a hard time buying anything for myself. Almost like I am not worthy of having nice things that I like. I currently have 1 bra and the wire is stabbing me but I’m dreading having to walk into a store and try to pick out a new bra. My shoes have holes in them but I feel like new shoes for myself would be too extravagant of a purchase. I wish my brain didn’t do this to me.
2026-11-10 05:01:20
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Christina wells :
Didn’t know how to deal with my periods or hair or makeup or how to dress 🥺
2026-11-09 09:27:50
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Natasha’s :
I never had undergarments or feminine products. I had a younger brother who was an infant and had lots of diapers left from my moms baby shower and was told to use the diapers for my cycle. Now as a grown woman I don’t play about feminine products and undergarments. Small things like that make a difference to your mental health
2026-11-09 10:40:32
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ikyfl.21♍️ :
Folks gotta remember some mothers were raised with mothers that didn’t mother them . Just make sure u don’t repeat the pattern
2026-11-09 03:08:19
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