@iamavionbaker: We broke up over the phone which crushed me and might be why I still feel like… unsettled? He said he feared we were two different people. I told him that I thought being two different people makes our story beautiful. It’s all in God’s hands now, but sharing the why with you all as well.
I'm sorry pretty lady that you had to experience this type of behavior. As this lady we're saying he wanted to leave, if only people would be honest with one another then again you must realize that Mental health is real and you could've been dealing with those type of issues from him without realizing that. I'm glad you're out of that relationship because it would've eventually destroyed you with all of that stress. whatever you do please don't take him back because it's gonna be a ongoing problem, you're gonna hurt but I pray that God will send you someone that is compatible with you. I love you my sister ❤️
2026-11-09 03:21:33
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liaggiba :
I’m so sorry queen but this is still manipulation, even if you can’t see it yet, they’ll do it until ether you walk away or just stay quiet to save the connection, for some women is harder to understand when coming from physical abuse type of relationship, but avoidance is emotional abuse, I hate you have to go through this because is extremely painful, but understand that sacrifice your mental health for anything or anyone will NEVER be worth it. I’m with you in your pain and send you hugs ♥️
2026-11-09 03:59:12
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browneyedgirl829 :
Was he an old Sagittarius!??
2026-11-09 05:44:33
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itsme__brit :
I went through the same exact thing girl.
2026-11-09 08:32:17
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Vic_no_mike :
It’s the not communicating the need for space that triggers us
2026-11-08 22:35:39
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Craetta32 :
GIRLLLLLL ARE YOU SPEAKING FOR MEEEEEE😩😩😩 Literally word for word everything you said 🥺
2026-11-09 04:51:46
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Dee Va :
Ok are we dating the same guy?? Wow! This is exactly what’s happening in my situation. Day 3 today and no contact and it sucks. No major problems with us either just him pulling away when there was anything I would bring to his attention.
2026-11-08 22:54:39
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Mental Wealth Shop :
So you had a dismissive avoidant…..go down that rabbit hole. I guarantee you it will make sense in the end.
2026-11-09 03:43:28
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H. :
Omg sameeee
2026-11-09 04:19:13
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eshlove413 :
Possibly an Anxious & Avoidant dynamic
2026-11-09 02:12:46
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✨Stacey✨ :
Girl… I just got out of a relationship like this!! 😳 The push and pull dynamic!! 🥺 It’s exhausting!! I had to dip!! ❤️🩹
2026-11-08 21:31:02
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Sisi :
This is so me and what I’m going through. I feel this on every level sis 😩😩😩
2026-11-08 20:11:11
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TruthWayLife :
He’s avoidant……. You’re better off unless you wanna keep having this same conversation the entirety of your relationship
2026-11-09 02:18:09
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Annalise :
Reading my life story right now!! Day 7 of no contact blocked on everything, the avoidant discard is brutal lol. Especially when like you had mentioned, he wasn’t a bad guy, just unable to communicate. Mine switched up at the end which was terrifying. At some point for me at least, the self regulation through their “withdraw” started reading to me as “their way of punishing me” without having to have a discussion. It’s tough out here, thanks for sharing 🫶
2026-11-09 03:00:31
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Hey.Its.Abena :
Girl!!!!!! I think we all dating the same man.
2026-11-09 01:15:55
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The Sproute Space :
Avoidant😂went through the same
2026-11-09 02:26:42
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Jenny :
Same situation 🫶❤️🩹
2026-11-08 23:32:52
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londoncalling26 :
GIRRRLLL!! U are describing my same exact relationship rn!! In fact we are meeting for dinner tonight to discuss ending it I guess. I’m very similar to u. Ahhh say a prayer that I handle it well lmao I’ve been praying all day I feel nervous rn
2026-11-09 01:10:36
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mari B :
I feel this too , we broke up over the phone and it was bad the argument
the only difference is I went thru a toxic and narcissistic relationship and always accusing and blaming for things we has possibly doing
it's been a week since the breakup 💔
2026-11-08 20:44:07
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Dimps :
I’m going through the same thing. He’s an avoidant and if you look up that person you’ll understand why he moved the way he did.
2026-11-09 00:32:48
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Ms Wright :
Communication is everything…
2026-11-09 00:21:26
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God’s beauty_823 :
Sounds like what I went thru
2026-11-09 00:06:47
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Black Beauty :
He didn’t want to be there anymore. He as most men. Did you have the guts to tell you. I wish you the best in moving forward with your life.
2026-11-08 21:48:50
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mlr13c :
relatable...was in a relationship with the similar communication struggles. I couldn't take the one-word answers and couldn't get past her guarded tendencies. good for you to learn this about the partner you deserve..
2026-11-08 22:49:26
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Southern Girl 81 :
We as society need to normalize break ups.
2026-11-08 23:34:24
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