@rosierunsforrefuge: Replying to @Girlmama22 the time that most stuck out to me was wearing a short dress on a boiling hot day at my friends house in Paris. He was so angry at me wearing that dress. I wore it anyway and I remember breaking down to my friends saying how he was changing and I wasn’t happy with this other version of him, but that I didn’t want to get divorced after a month. I had only met these friends less than a year prior when I had moved to Paris so they didn’t know me as much as my friends back home. I never opened up to my friends back home or my family about the true situation I was in. At the time I didn’t think I would have been supported because they didn’t initially support the marriage. #redflags #abusivemarriage #coercivecontrol #domesticabuse #domesticabuseawareness