@4matt_austin: I was typing “we just grew apart” then remembered accountability is part of my healing journey. #keepgoing #singledad #healing #accountability #fyp

Givell :

I've asked him this do many times. Each time it's a different answer, but he still blames me for divorcing him.

✨Niki No Limits✨ :

I can accept a man taking accountability and growing from it. I am a different person than who I was years ago too. But I can’t accept continued lack of accountability and continued low vibrational behavior. Be honest about who you are now.

Faith Neene :

Naw be honest 🤣😂

Honeyed.MexiRican :

Your Hero Arc could begin with the honest retelling of your villainous origin story.

PanaRootz :

Give her options by speaking the truth.

Dolly Daze :

tell the truth . always. never make someone else have to do it. its inevitably cowardice

Susan Says :

This is the best post I’ve seen all day. Acountability in a man makes a woman feel safe. Keep it up!

JazzE :

honestly If you know were the villain and can be honest abt it that's not a deal breaker

Inahotairballoon :

This is King level. Be honest and nothing from the dark will take you out at the knees.

Kay | The Stylish Saver :

Nah we just grew apart is enough really cuz what happened there don’t got nothing to do with what’s gonna happen here. But hey this your growth journey so do what’s best for you.

BA :

Lmao they be knowing we the villain dog

💜 :

He blamed me for him getting cancer. Said he was stressed that I had to pay all the bills because he couldn’t find a job. I made sure all the bills were paid, money coming in & we didn’t come out of pocket for treatment all while being pregnant with our son…we received money for him getting treatments. Yeah, I’m big dawg. I’ll stay to myself

merakisol :

Just tell the raw truth. Trust is imperative. If she has a problem with it she’s not the one for you.

regina_whoeverru :

Me sitting here in my healing error trying to figure out how I would take the news of somebody I’m talking to saying that their past relationship didn’t work because of infidelity on his end. I may still not be healed enough. I almost feel like I want to hear that in person on a date to see how your body reacts to saying that.

💚Annie_RN🇵🇭💚 :

Does the other person always make you the villain anyway. 😳

Angie B. Minero :

Silent repost

KeKe❌ :

This is TOP TIER!!!!

𝓘𝓩𝓩𝓨 :

We grew apart 😅

V_M&M :

People will be too quick to be asking this question. Like I don’t even know you yet I’m not gonna tell you the most intimate parts of my life.

Nolaredbone♋️💜💎⚜️ :

That’s my answer but it’s the truth😂

Bridget Monique :

Tell the truth and ladies pay attention 😳😳

TheDiamondScorpion :

This!!

Dee :

It’s actually not her business🤷🏾‍♀️

Kerri :

When I first started talking to my now husband he literally showed me receipts of him being the villain and he shared his soul with me. He expressed deep disappointment in himself and the man that he had been in his past, but he also showed great strength and humility in sharing the man he truly believed he could become. We've been together almost six years and I have not once felt any pain from being with him. When you find the person you want to be then the person you were won't feel so heavy.

NuNu🇺🇸❤️🔱🖤 :