Like wdym liking a post is shooting your shot, ig doesn’t even show likes in a logical way for it to work 😭😭
2026-11-08 22:07:46
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catsniffingexpert :
If ik someone im liking their post😭
2026-11-09 15:20:04
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Hellhound :
I think part of this stems from the fact that a lot of lgbtq ppl have dealt with unpleasant othering in the past so the fear of rejection can be very intense for people. Hence why they play these stupid games of interest gaging. Not saying it’s right but I know I used to have a much harder time being direct and things. (Still can sometimes)
2026-11-09 04:58:32
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can confirm in Paris its the same shit
2026-11-09 12:15:12
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Adept Empath :
That’s insane. I reject this and will not participate in it.
2026-11-09 01:42:11
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Alex Yu :
That’s beyond low effort.🥲🥲🥲
2026-11-09 04:03:45
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Corey French :
or apparently calling certian guys bro means your friend zoning them 👀👀 like what.
2026-11-09 03:37:04
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tejota :
very true. people don’t have cojones to do it in person or just say something. hopefully philly isn’t like that for u. the northeast people can be more direct
2026-11-08 22:02:09
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sophie :
same with viewing a story at a certain point like they have no idea when it was posted they are not thinking about you that much
2026-11-09 14:48:02
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spazerace :
6 years. i been at peace for 6 years. its too much😂
2026-11-09 05:11:57
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Junior :
I did the second one and they thought we were dating afterward and got mad at me
2026-11-09 01:13:57
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jpf_0417 :
This is why I’m considering aggressive or too direct, I don’t play games. I know what I like and I go after what I like 🤷🏻♂️This is also why I’m single.
2026-11-09 01:00:58
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mmonme99 :
The second one lit happened to me on Saturday and I was so confused lol
2026-11-08 21:55:27
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wyllbear35 :
all of this!!!!!!
2026-11-09 02:46:46
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adrianhamilton89 :
I think as well a lot of gay men think they should be chased and therefore ambiguity is rewarded in our community
2026-11-09 07:13:18
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C H I G O 🇳🇬 🇨🇦 :
Literally Such low effort behavior 😂
2026-11-09 03:13:58
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Eric 💋 :
The gay community is still affected by the patriarchy. The reason why gay men struggle to connect with their own kind in the same way in which straight guys are terrible friends to each other. It’s rooted in the idea that men are different and that men don’t need help or guidance. It’s the “you’re a man you’ll be fine suck it up” mentality. Which is why majority of men struggle with mental health because their friends aren’t there for them. So how on earth are gay men supposed to find boyfriends when they can’t even be good friends to each other? It’s the exact same dynamic as to how straight men aren’t there for their friends. Gay men need to learn more from women. Women value community and friendships and networking. Funny how lots of gay men are friends with lots and lots of women but they don’t seem to pick up or learn those beneficial behaviours from women that will benefit them. 😭
2026-11-09 09:16:28
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ozcarsmdrnlife :
I’d liked three of your TikToks, please slide into my DMs 😂
2026-11-08 23:56:59
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co0lkid42069 :
If they like your story they want your penis
2026-11-09 02:23:15
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Javi Ohhh :
They are delusional 🤣
2026-11-09 08:56:13
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aidontdraw :
I think this is just a man thing. Hetrosexual men also do these things on mass to women. The Instagram thing is common. So is the low-attention-span next-best-thing dating. They will also love bomb long date to get 🍑&🐱, then ghost.
2026-11-09 16:51:34
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Kubafoc4sh :
I had a gay guy friend who turned trans during hs😭that was the worse friendship I had we would be in competition 24/7 would betitle me infront eveyone claim I was talking to his hoes… mind u we don’t even got the same type,he was messy asl etc like he’ll nah😭🤷 he tried molestinf me to
2026-11-09 00:50:03
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