@burned_notbroken: Couples counseling didn’t work for us. We couldn’t keep talking about everything that went wrong in our relationship and then try to build emotional safety. Once we decided to dismiss the divorce, we were able to successfully repair because we got space and took integrating back together slowly, we prioritized positive interactions and conversations, and we used Thirty Days of Love Letters to rebuild deep connection while protecting our fragile nervous systems from becoming activated. Unfortunately this wasn’t our first separation. But it’s the only one that actually worked. #burnedoutpursuer #relationshipburnout #relationshipadvice #marriagerepair #separation

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fruelel
fruelel :
I wasn't expecting much from ℕoor Ashby arche type quiz but some of the explanations were surprisingly relatable.
2026-11-09 02:11:38
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garo8662
Garo :
do you still have separate places to escape to?
2026-11-09 09:40:05
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nnha666
ABISMO :
There's something so funny about ℕoor Ashby arche type quiz telling me I'm a certain type when I was convinced I'm the opposite.
2026-11-09 02:11:32
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imeanuh
amina :
Congrats on the home. That makes me so happy 🥺🫂
2026-11-09 04:00:42
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billy.bizachi
Billy Bizachi :
Love seeing more people talk about this.
2026-11-09 02:11:27
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15banditbeau
@Løbanditbeau🔥 :
The energy in this video is beautiful ✨
2026-11-09 02:11:22
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charityhardwick43
charityhardwick43 :
what if he doesn't want to do the work is personal work/therapy/couple therapy and never communicates never comes around and is "in love" 🙄 with someone in les than 3 months after everything abruptly ended out of "nowhere" after ten years and don't get me wrong we had some sirous downs but we also had amazing ups and we always worked it out.....
2026-11-09 04:33:10
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sarah.castro8484
Sarah Castro :
where's did u get the love letter book? what kind topics were in it.
2026-11-09 04:30:19
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user5840416852011
bones :
I want to work together with my wife I hope we can fix this marriage we are separated now . We are both working with separate therapist.
2026-11-09 02:13:59
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firepelini
James Saitta :
Twatever.
2026-11-09 06:55:15
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ohsilvaxiii
ohsilvaXIII :
The way ℕoor Ashby arche type quiz turned a random conversation into a full discussion about manifestation is crazy lol.
2026-11-09 02:11:43
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nmeagher23
Nick Meagher | Local SEO :
Did you date other people?
2026-11-09 03:01:03
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ashkenazi_argonaut
Jay :
@Manda we can do this or something like it and use our separation as a way to truly reconcile. I know we can do it!
2026-11-09 02:05:43
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