@onlyonemichele: Imagine growing up in a household where saying "no" was considered disrespectful. Where having boundaries was treated as disobedience. Where standing up for yourself resulted in punishment. Now imagine carrying that conditioning into adulthood. Children who are punished for establishing boundaries may grow into adults who struggle with people-pleasing, self-advocacy, and recognizing abusive behavior. The psychological damage can take years to unlearn. When toxic parents reward compliance and punish independence, they can condition their children to tolerate the very behaviors that make them vulnerable to manipulation and abuse later in life. Reparenting yourself after growing up in a dysfunctional family system is no small undertaking. You were allowed to have boundaries then. And you're allowed to have them now. #ToxicParent #ChildhoodTrauma #HealthyBoundaries #NarcissisticAbuse #NoContact

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mary._wa
Mary :
The worst childhood. And it is def grooming.
2026-11-09 16:54:19
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atallpenguin
thetallestpenguin :
It still triggers me when people ask me if I want to do something and I say no and then they ask “why” ….. BECAUSE I DONT 👏NOT 👏WANT 👏TO
2026-11-09 17:28:49
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jahleesaa
jahleesaa :
I’ve been trying to explain this to my mom
2026-11-09 20:02:04
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user572944737395
user572944737395 :
I’m convinced my narcissistic emotionally immature parents WANTED to see me abused in adulthood too.
2026-11-09 13:19:56
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doloresnapierkows
DoloDolo :
I wasn’t allowed to disagree on anything so it’s hard for me to push back on anything as an adultv
2026-11-09 20:15:08
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gentlemoonsliterature
☁️🖤Gentlemoon🦢🪽 :
The fact that I felt like I was gonna die EVERY TIME I wanted to say “no” is insane. Me and my father are estranged bc I said “no” and said I’m gonna live my life how I want to...It’s been over 4 years now...
2026-11-09 20:24:07
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ccgdoffcial
Caribbean Coastal Grandaughter :
“I don’t like it when you tell me no” I literally laughed in her face once I became a teenager
2026-11-09 19:59:00
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lindseebee4
lindseebee :
It’s very confusing especially when your parents present as loving and taking care of you. It took my until almost 42 to start seeing who my parents really are. I do think they have been sabotaging me my whole life.
2026-11-09 17:52:17
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i.am.amx
AMX :
This is how I grew up and I feel absolutely nothing for my parents now that I am an adult.
2026-11-09 18:21:17
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whiskersparkles
Saripndippity :
I was told “No back-talking.” when i would defend myself or point out the neglect. I’m 33 and still unpacking all of that.
2026-11-09 17:58:11
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blossomwitherika
Identity Transformation Coach :
yesss 👏🏼 I've been saying it's grooming. We need to start calling it what it is. Great video!
2026-11-09 17:31:38
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isabelle.nymph
Isabelle Lenore :
In my 30s and recently realized how much work I have to do to un-train bad habits, it runs so deep.
2026-11-09 19:04:56
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magikalmads
Mads | The Sophia Perspective :
omg i just made a video on this yessss
2026-11-09 17:18:40
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blueblobbing
BlueBlobbing :
... I shouldnt relate to this-
2026-11-09 19:24:13
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teawithtee
🍌🪝 annyong 🍸🔵 :
i didn’t even really know what a boundary was fr until like 1.5 years ago 😭
2026-11-09 17:54:34
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ash_and_ember00
Ash_and_Ember00 :
these parents wanted to be abusers. which is why the more adults go no contact it makes them angry
2026-11-09 21:02:04
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bananasinpajamas8888
Bananasinpajamas :
Yep they groom to so they can keep abusing you as an adult
2026-11-09 19:44:49
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teez246
TeeZ246 :
💯💯💯
2026-11-09 12:48:24
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Lumka_4444 🇿🇦 :
🎯🎯🎯
2026-11-09 19:21:07
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thewerkingwriter
thewerkingwriter :
🎯🎯
2026-11-09 16:16:38
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