@nostasadd8j: Then you wonder why your child has anger issues because you never taught them how to emotional regulation #fyp #fypシ゚viral #question #isaidwhatisaid
Well I’m not black or come from a black family but gentle parenting doesn’t work. When I’m at the store and I see kids throwing tantrums, yelling at their parents and disrespecting them all I can think is, damn I’m grateful my parents beat me when I misbehaved. By beat I mean w a belt, or their hand. Taking away what they love like their phones doesn’t work, I have a cousin whose parents does that but they just act worse. In a way hitting ur kid kinda works because they learn better. Now I’m not saying abuse is ok, I’m saying like pinch their arm not hard but like as a warning or spank their bottom. Whenever i misbehaved as a kid and threw tantrums my dad would pinch my arm as a warning and I’d stop, talking them softly and threatening to take away toys isn’t gonna work.
2026-11-09 16:50:39
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Smortfox :
Psychologists have said that spanking or beating your child leaves the exact same trauma as sexual assault. Why would you want to do that to your child? Also why teach them its ok to hit someone when its not acceptable anywhere to anyone?
2026-11-09 18:13:27
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Elizabeth :
white woman here ✋🏻 in the 90s shopping at kmart during the Christmas season with my parents who were separated possibly even divorced at this time and dad had been away from his recreational time for a bit at this point. My brother and I were apparently annoying him at this point he took us outside with a thick ass leather belt behind the blockbuster and BEAT us. Mom found out later that day when she saw the whelps and bruising, we did not see him for a while after. It's not a race issue.
2026-11-09 18:06:33
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Ant beezy :
I know..We have to break that generational curse…
2026-11-09 18:08:03
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Jacen :
Agreed
2026-11-09 15:56:28
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Florida Man :
I don’t think it’s a black centric thing… kids get whooped since the dawn of time. Seeing how these “gentle parenting” kids are today I think we need to bring back a good ass whoopin
2026-11-09 17:15:46
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mhmmmno5 :
Man ppl don’t know how to be an good parent no emotional support don’t know how to talk to their children ,dont actually have the patience to teach them .don’t know how to do shit but yell at them and wanna get all aggressive.Kids just got here Not saying you can’t discipline them but there literally better ways to go about it .
2026-11-09 17:43:43
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Elias :
u think it originated during slavery 😂😂
2026-11-09 18:33:04
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Sugar Foot :
shidddd...the ones my age respectful as hell because of fear of getting another one..now y'all don't do it and they are out of control...y'all more friends than parents.
2026-11-09 18:34:09
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Gene :
I deserved every single ass whoopin I got.
2026-11-09 17:40:45
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LaTasha Walker :
What do you think a rod is?
2026-11-09 17:44:56
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mhmmmno5 :
Parents needs to set a better example learn how to actually teach and communicate with their child and lead !! They set the tone to shit‼️Always reacting to shit off violence ,and aggresvion isn’t doing anything good for your kid
2026-11-09 17:47:54
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user1422138899343 :
So do like a Christian and just pray
2026-11-09 17:40:36
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Kiaralolveutki :
Coming from a black person who is homeschooled and now grown and watching all these kids now and days everyone needs a ass whooped all y’all kids need their ass whooped they might be getting in front of y’all but as soon as they hit y’all schools and shit them kids is bad as hell cussing nonstop sound dumb because they ain’t even cussing right fighting all kinds of shit Twerking on TikTok videos. It ain’t cute.
2026-11-09 17:00:54
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