@papa.malaysia: At 25, plans happened in minutes. At 35, plans need a calendar invite, childcare, and luck. That’s the funny part about dad life. Your world gets bigger, but your personal space gets smaller. More people love you. Fewer people ask how you’re doing. And somehow, that can feel lonelier than anyone expects. #lonely #mensmentalhealth #thedip #parentinganak #papamalaysia

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john.doe6946
John Doe :
At 40 I was a really depressed guy so I wanted to change my life a bit. So I bought an Audi R8 V10. Now, I'm still depressed but I have a nice car.
2026-11-10 01:35:45
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derby123q
derby :
Deepest at 40-48
2026-11-09 22:41:59
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bostonian525
bostonian :
Not true. I might be in my 50’s (and unbothered) but I’ve never felt more alone.
2026-11-10 07:36:23
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straddllw
L W :
The sad realisation is that 20-25 is peak and its all downhill from there even if you start rising after retirement. Yet in your 20-25 your are unaware of the options that you should be taking advantage of.
2026-11-10 02:54:44
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eish7819
eish7819 :
Loneliest I've ever felt at 48
2026-11-10 07:06:27
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jay.lau40
Skytap :
Sometimes I wonder are my peers feeling the same way as me? Or I am the outlier
2026-11-10 13:45:13
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user4629369486974
Alex :
This is so accurate
2026-11-10 13:18:29
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yanisnumber1
Find wisdom :
im 46 and already unbothred
2026-11-10 02:02:15
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curbaliciousdef
CurbySchmerby :
I’m at the comeback phase at 36. Not too shabby
2026-11-10 15:00:35
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jdgreek
Joel Greek :
Lies. I am
2026-11-10 02:21:47
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nanuser1
nanuser1 :
2026-11-10 14:56:17
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8digits_peso_uncle
💰 8-Digits ₱ Uncle 🇸🇬 :
Luckily im abt to finish the dip stage 😂
2026-11-10 03:19:46
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jeff.zafry
JeffZafry :
Next year is my 30s . I can feeel the pressure already 😂😂😂
2026-11-10 03:47:01
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casesandplaces
It's Just Bonito :
Deep in at 40
2026-11-10 02:31:37
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32c247
32c24/7 :
Absolutely I’m on the way outta my 30s n agree with this so much!
2026-11-10 02:12:14
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aldi_e
aldi_e :
I am 38, and I agree
2026-11-10 08:25:30
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vespa2022_
Vespa2022 :
Always work hard in your early years. You will thank yourself later on
2026-11-10 03:58:59
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jaddieification
Jaddieification 🇦🇺 :
In the dip stage
2026-11-10 04:45:51
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averageclyde
Average Clyde :
Im on my comeback era now. Feeling younger, with a hint of body aches😅
2026-11-09 23:13:32
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glass6960
grass :
sngat tepat
2026-11-09 23:43:39
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magskin7
magskin :
I feel you💪🏾
2026-11-09 22:52:50
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petrabarus
Petra Barus | Bahas Koding :
Is this what people usually refer to as “Life begins at 50”?
2026-11-10 01:26:58
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sprcr1
sprcr1 :
People can’t add. For most your midlife IS in your 30s. Folks acting like midlife is 50 are delusional
2026-11-10 15:20:27
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chunky_funk
Ryno🇿🇦 :
hitting that big dip atm.....shits depressing AF
2026-11-10 08:36:28
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marcooporras
Marco Porras :
Bs, at your 30 you’re the king of the world
2026-11-10 04:45:30
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