@rewirewithrach: What’s actually happening internally that gets a fearful avoidant from being so in love to abruptly ending things? Let’s talk about the 3 internal processes happening that maps out the trajectory #breakup #nocontact #attachmentstyle #rewirewithrach #fypシ
I'm pretty sure I'm subconsciously only getting involved with avoidant men, making the discard inevitable.. I do try to communicate how I'm feeling, and they do know every step I go through.. I can even own up to my mistakes, apologize genuinely and make changes.. but when I look back on the relationship patterns, none of these guys could've worked out and I knew that early on every. damn. time... and then fell 'so in love'. Ive only had three and a half serious relationship, but I see now that its the same pattern every time. theyre such lost causes to begin with that its safe- because they were all very obviously emotionally incapable of being in a healthy relationship, and apparently I have been too because thats all I've pursued.
2026-11-09 22:15:29
1
Brandon :
This is my ex girlfriend to a T.
2026-11-09 21:40:32
1
Kev B :
This is exactly the same as physically abusive men avoiding accountability by blaming their childhood. Don’t let your emotionally abusive “fearful avoidant” manipulate you into believing they’re also a victim. They’re not.
2026-11-09 20:17:11
9
cheejuboebal :
All kinds of explanations but no talk of absolute lack of accountability.
2026-11-09 23:27:02
0
To see more videos from user @rewirewithrach, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.