@getnakedlove: i once had an ex boyfriend tell me that he always felt like he had more power because i was the one who was more open and honest with my feelings and my interest in him. i remember even then thinking that was a sad take, because even though he didn’t vocalize how he was feeling, i could of course tell that he was just as into me as i was him. as i’ve gotten older, owning my feelings and being direct about them has made me feel more confident and more powerful, not less. sure, do i open myself up to be rejected? absolutely. but i know i am more transparent and actually come across more self-assured, because i’m not wasting my energy playing games or pretending i feel something less than i actually do. what do you think about playing it cool when it comes to your feelings in dating? let me know in the comments, and follow along for more queer poly lover girl and life coach hot takes ❤️‍🔥 #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #playingitcool #nonchalant #behonest

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