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Troy_Shawn_m :

I like where you are going with this Ashley and I'd like to help out. The first thing is have an honest look in the mirror. Stop living on "toxic hope" or waiting for potential. Look at how he treats you right now. If you do not have consistency, emotional safety, assume this is all he is offering. If he has been consistent then it's time to ask the question. You do not wait for him to initiate the "Define the Relationship" talk. Use clear, low-pressure "I" statements. For example: “I’m really enjoying getting to know you, and I would like to move toward a committed relationship. How do you feel about that?” Anything other than an enthusiastic, clear "yes" is a no. If he is stalling or says no just walk away and go no contact. Hope this helps. 😌