@bennylichtenwalner: If you were married for over 10 years and your spouse wants a divorce, you're not going to rescue it in the time frame you hope. But it's not done for good. When a relationship ends after that many years, therapy, talking it out, changing and chasing don't work to get them back. It takes a lot longer and a lot of endurance. What works is the thing you'd never think of, attraction, and it's super counterintuitive. Married or together for years and it's falling apart? DM me ROOTS and I'll message you back.