@aiaalu78: part 1 why is it that we widely believe that the man is the leader in the relationship and or the Head of the house💔 #relationshipsadvice #tonightconvsersationpodcast #relationshipgoals #relationshiptips #tonightconversation

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life.faith_love
life.faith_love :
The Bible teaches that men and women are equal in value, both made in God’s image and given dominion over the earth (Genesis 1:27–28). However, within marriage, God gives the husband the responsibility of leadership, not because he is superior to his wife, but because he is accountable to God for how he leads his family. A husband is commanded to love his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25), meaning sacrificially, selflessly, with patience, respect and care. He is not called to dominate, control or simply demand obedience. He must first submit himself to God and lead according to His Word. Equally, there is something beautiful in how God describes a woman in Genesis 2:18 as a suitable helper for man. The Hebrew word is Ezer, which carries a much deeper meaning than simply being an assistant or servant. It is a word also used to describe God as the helper of His people. It conveys strength, support and essential partnership. God didn’t create Eve to be beneath Adam, but to stand alongside him as his corresponding partner. She was not created because she was lesser, but because something was missing without her. A wife’s submission does not mean she is voiceless, inferior or has to blindly agree with everything her husband says. She is his partner, and they should communicate, discuss decisions, respect each other’s opinions and work as a team. The way I see it, a godly husband leads by serving, loving and putting God first. When a man lives that way, he creates an environment where his wife can trust, respect and feel secure in his leadership. It’s not about the man having power over the woman; it’s about both fulfilling their God-given responsibilities while recognising that they are equal in worth before God. A woman was not created to be man’s possession, but his partner; not beneath him, but beside him. And a man was not given leadership to rule over his wife, but the responsibility to love her as Christ loves the church.
2026-11-10 19:22:38
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mrs_a_y
Mrs_A :
The pastor is not confused, his question is valid but pple are so indoctrinated to a point that they are judging him without understanding his point.
2026-11-10 08:38:54
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aali_boo
Queen Nairobi :
Not all men are natural born leaders. This is not talked about enough
2026-11-10 19:10:26
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yasheika07
Yasheika Latoyia🫧 :
This went over there heads !
2026-11-11 18:25:40
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carebear_eve
Carebear-eve :
Pastor was smart. He asked this to start the conversation. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t know.
2026-11-10 21:32:54
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nextlevelcreation8
Lynci :
THAT'S A VALID QUESTION.. PASTOR WOKE..
2026-11-10 17:11:48
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lilkiwii223
Kiwii223 :
Idk if it’s just me don’t judge me but I feel like this best question that was ever asked , an to me I don’t think no one answered it to his best ability , I don’t think plp really understood wat he asked . There is a perfect answer for that question out there somewhere for a person who is into spirituality and that reads alot up on things like this deeply rooted. They answered it based on a relationship perspective
2026-11-10 19:30:35
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poutymouthmom
PoutyMouthMom❌ :
I think he’s eluding to the fact that women can be more capable of leading and that instead of automatically believing the man should be the leader…that as one body one mind it should be agreed who is the leader and in what context/aspect of their life!
2026-11-10 19:12:32
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feanatasha4
Orfea 💕 :
MY EX HUSBAND !!! The man literally verbally said to me that marriage is not a democracy, it is a dictatorship. LOL I got up outta there QUICK!!
2026-11-13 14:45:41
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kielaaedwards
Ramarie16🦋 :
I understood him the first time .. idk what about everyone else!
2026-11-10 23:00:26
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dimples485
Chanty :
equal is equal not one perception of what equal should be its balance in a household or when 2 come together the both are leading together this my 2 cents on the topic
2026-11-13 12:33:09
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elonzar
Destini 💋 :
He’s definitely WOKE. Not every man is capable of leading and that’s ok.
2026-11-11 01:17:42
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funsizekellz
funsizekellz :
this pastor is now seeing the light and I understand the question he asked person only some will understand
2026-11-10 18:36:56
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andy_b_d
Andrea B Da Silva :
This was actually a deep conversation. Got me thinking. Thanks for posting this.
2026-11-13 09:42:22
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yazabu6
⚖️🦅 :
Equal in the eyes of god but not equal in responsibility and value for say
2026-11-10 09:49:20
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kylietayloryount
Kylie :
When Adam and Eve disobeyed God he banished them from Eden… the man was “sentenced” to a life of hard work and the woman was “sentenced” to childbirth, meaning motherhood. That’s the start… then add in the additional context of our individual existence/ identity in Christ.
2026-11-13 02:52:03
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50_shades_of_chicc
Nee’ :
God created Adam first and then created his rib Eve. That explains it !!
2026-11-11 21:26:42
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shawnty777
Sԋαɯɳ𝜏ყ :
Poeple laughing in the audience dont get it. He is asking the wrong people
2026-11-11 16:00:40
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shanine_oumar
Shanine Nicole Moore :
Not all of them are leaders. Regardless of what religion or culture says
2026-11-10 19:24:14
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patty.m0911
🌻 パティ・ムドー🌻 :
Has he not read his Bible?😳😳😳😳
2026-11-10 14:07:18
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afriquehairbeauty
Jameselle A Kollie :
This is a very important question because all men are not born leaders. Leadership is earned through character and behavior. A lot women are better leaders than men.
2026-11-10 21:33:46
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sherryjohnson64
Sherry Johnson :
the pastor is right, we are equal a duality of one. it's one universe, masculine and feminine energy in one. the world tries to divide us as man and woman
2026-11-10 15:56:59
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lew7378
Lew737 :
Address Genesis 2:18, and after the fall, (Eve ate first) God came to Adam because Adam is who the instructions were given to BECAUSE he’s the leader. it’s that simple.
2026-11-10 21:09:19
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melco.corinne
melco corinne :
interesting question. in reality, women are the natural leaders. it has been existing in all ancient civilization. then men starting writing his rules and said God...
2026-11-11 12:49:21
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misskokokior
Miss KoKo Kior| SAHM :
Couldn’t be my pastor
2026-11-10 13:36:36
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