@the.joy.edit: The enabling dad doesn’t just stand by and watch. Sometimes he becomes the narcissistic mom’s biggest defender. He makes excuses for her behavior, minimizes what she did, expects you to keep the peace, and somehow makes YOU responsible for fixing a relationship you didn’t destroy. And when you finally stand up for yourself, suddenly you’re the problem. At some point, you realize you weren’t dealing with one parent who failed to protect you. You were dealing with two. ❤️ I talk about this family dynamic and so many of the patterns that keep daughters confused, guilty, and questioning themselves in my ebook, But She’s Your Mom. It’s the book I wish I’d had when I was trying to make sense of my own family. ❤️ linked 🔗 in my bio
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Tuesday 10 November 2026 06:09:37 GMT
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musingvox :
In my case, my dad just sat back and let my mom mentally physically and emotionally abuse us because he had been worn down so much that he finally just came to the realization better than than me
2026-11-10 11:49:38
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Joseph LaFountaine :
This was my father and step monster…only my father just checked out and only engaged enough to show he was always taking her side.
2026-11-10 14:09:23
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newair378 :
My mother told my father which phone call he could answer to. She was also speaking louder than him when he was on the phone. But when I asked him why they would estrange me, he had a big smile. Not the victim I thought he was
2026-11-10 09:00:18
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Dan 🏴🇮🇹🇲🇨 :
My mom and step dad
2026-11-10 14:19:21
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hollybromwellshau :
My dad was useless. He did whatever he wanted and my mom never said shit to him. This is what truly upsets me. She had an image to protect. And it was not an image I would have ever protected.
2026-11-10 07:45:37
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Leti ❌ :
And every time a decision was made she would say, “well your dad said it should be done this way. Not me. “
2026-11-10 14:53:50
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Luiza :
My stepdad to a T
2026-11-10 12:11:18
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magic :
Facts 🫡
2026-11-10 12:52:26
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megg :
It's the opposite in my family
2026-11-10 06:14:48
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